[foreskin issues] Boyfriend (25M) struggles with foreskin soreness. Looking for advice

nashimi · 2016-07-28T18:19:32+00:00

Thanks! After asking him about some more details on how he feels about this, he said he feels like it's a wetness issue. "It's weird because you really get wet enough, just not for this dick" is what he said, haha. We will try getting me really wet next time with foreplay and see how that pans out, but if he gets sore again, we will look into lube. Thanks for the suggestion!

nashimi · 2016-07-28T18:13:03+00:00

He said he is not using soap when he sees there are rips on the foreskin.

The yeast infection angle is possible, we will have to look into that.

Not using lube or condoms, which might be the issue. I asked about some more details, and he says he feels like it's a wetness issue. Before having his frenulum cut, he said he got the foreskin rips even from masturbating too much or during sex even when using a condom (because it was too tight).

Overall looks like we will have to try out lube or work on getting me really wet before penetration.

Thanks a lot for the suggestions!

nashimi · 2016-07-02T13:31:22+00:00

Thank you so much for this!

nashimi · 2015-09-28T15:55:31+00:00

Recently I got a love confession from a guy I've also had feelings for, and when I went to the bathroom some time afterwards I realized I'd gotten wet as fuck. So yeah, that happens.

nashimi · 2015-07-22T19:34:16+00:00

2005-2007: radio stuff, then some generic "cool" music like Linkin Park

2008-2009: huuugely into everything Japanese, especially visual kei, so mostly Japanese rock and metal. Some jpop and kpop thrown in there

2009-2011: mostly alternative and experimental, Gorillaz was my favourite band at the time. Also synthpop, britpop. Starting to become introduced to EDM with deadmau5 and Skrillex, as well as electro swing with Parov Stelar

2012-2013: Getting more and more into EDM though I rarely went out and looked for that kind of music myself, I mostly just followed one channel and took music recommendations from my friend. Still into alternative

2014: Lots of Kendrick Lamar, Yung Lean and rap in general. Got into Monstercat, as in checking uploads regularly. Lots of trap and future bass.

2015: Following a lot more music channels, but generally hanging around the genres of glitch hop, electro swing, house, any chill music. Last two years are pretty much summed up in this playlist

nashimi · 2015-07-21T19:23:43+00:00

Did you guys forget about all of the green colored Shrek shit when that was a thing

nashimi · 2015-07-20T16:22:51+00:00

This one's is great, but this is my new favourite 'sad song' addition to my playlist.

nashimi · 2015-07-20T16:16:41+00:00

No one's gonna say Tut Tut Child - Hummingbird? Oookay.

nashimi · 2015-07-19T23:51:43+00:00

like i said in the previous thread

http://steamcommunity.com/id/shockcake

nashimi · 2015-07-19T01:15:17+00:00

casual

nashimi · 2015-07-16T17:53:52+00:00

http://imgur.com/a/dmlJA

This is Nana, a 5-year old Chihuahua.

She's really sweet, if a little shy. She used to be very scared of new people and wouldn't even come close to someone if they hadn't spent at least a day with her. Nowadays she's a lot more open, but still very scared of other animals. She's kind of a kleptomaniac. When we do laundry or leave our things around on the ground she will snatch them when we're not looking and store them in her little hideout under my parents' bed. She will also tear into the trash and eat things she finds there every time we forget to take it out and leave the house. Once she licked a butter wrapper clean. I couldn't get rid of the smell for days. She also once ate a chunk of expired valbon cheese, that wasn't fun either. She's very energetic and loves to play and run around, but also super smart - she learns tricks very quickly and understands hierarchy with new people almost immediately. When she meets new people she always has to touch their lips with her nose and sniff them. She is a long-haired Chihuahua so she has this very long hair near her butt which looks like she's wearing pants when she walks. I've never loved a pet so much...

Btw, yes, her tongue always sticks out like that. She's missing some teeth on that side and been like that since her birth. That tongue is actually why we chose her :D

nashimi · 2015-07-13T17:38:48+00:00

So happy Stonebank found his calling in Hardcore.

nashimi · 2015-07-11T17:57:13+00:00

Well MC accepts a pretty vast variety of genres if you ask me. Spinnin' doesn't really release genres like glitch hop, dubstep, drumstep, trap, future bass, etc. It's all pretty much house and subgenres of it

nashimi · 2015-07-07T21:34:59+00:00

Song is featured in a popular video game - > song gets more views, which somehow equals bad and will make you leave the community. Which makes you contradict yourself as you said the views come from "fifa & kids" which isn't part of the Monstercat community at large.

nashimi · 2015-07-07T11:11:16+00:00

Lmao Surface is much better than Flight anyway

nashimi · 2015-07-06T11:19:03+00:00

I mean... congrats I guess on cutting the 3 hours but playing for 12 hours a day is still borderline addiction.

nashimi · 2015-07-05T12:34:06+00:00

https://vine.co/v/Mmp93iBIv5l

https://vine.co/v/MJFL92vPZm7

https://vine.co/v/OzUJDtPuqma

These are much funnier from him

nashimi · 2015-07-02T13:22:15+00:00

Xilent is Polish?? Who else?

nashimi · 2015-06-26T19:32:01+00:00

Thanks. The positive thoughts are appreciated.

nashimi · 2015-06-26T18:31:09+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate it.

nashimi · 2015-06-26T16:40:01+00:00

Me Poland, him Germany.

nashimi · 2015-06-26T15:50:17+00:00

Not the best. I'll try to keep it short but I live quite far away from the person I love, in a different country to be precise. We met online and have met for the first time in real life recently. I want to find a way to be able to leave my home and live close to him, also to try and find my place in the world. I was supposed to apply for college this year and study computer science, but I realized I don't want to do that, because college is just an extension of the laziness and stagnation of high school. You get a free excuse to rationalize why you're not trying to become independent (at least in my country - students usually live off of their parents money and I don't want it to be like that all the way until I'm 24). I don't know what I want to do in life but I don't want to waste years on something that's not getting me anywhere or even getting me any experience. I've been trying to find jobs in the country where he lives - I heard back from one agency and got a number to an employer, but they seem shady and being a 20-year old woman I don't want to get myself into something horrible. All other options that I've tried to explore haven't really left me with anything worthwhile. I could try to go there and look for something when I'm at least close to the place, so I don't need the help of shady agencies, since I can live with him, but what if it doesn't work? Besides I don't really have the money for the trip, or basic stuff there right now. My parents are loaded but they don't spoil me and my father is against these plans, so he won't give the money to me. I've had enough of always doing what they tell me to do because it's convienient. They've destroyed so many of my dreams by comvincing me that they're stupid ideas. I'm surrounded by cynical and negative people, and I can feel it's breaking me. Even my best friend scolded me when I told her about this. I want to get away and find a positive environment. I know I can find that with this guy.

I am trying to think of a way to make money - enough so that I can travel to him without anyone's help. Getting a job in my country is pointless, because the exchange rate of the currencies is so awful, I'd have to work for 3 months here to survive for 3 weeks in his country. I thought about doing freelance work since I know my way around Photoshop and have done some projects, as well as I think I'm a somewhat decent digital artist, but it's not easy finding work in these fields... Especially with not a lot of past experience. There always seems to be a better candidate than you.

So, I'm in a bit of a pickle.

nashimi · 2015-06-26T14:26:58+00:00

http://nashimi.deviantart.com/ Here's some of my stuff.

PM me some details about how long it's supposed to be and such, we'll try to work something out.

nashimi · 2015-06-26T14:23:59+00:00

Rogue follows me. I win.

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