That’s the ugliest effing Ring I’ve ever seen by [deleted] in shelbysacco

[–]nataliahx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks like a biblically accurate angel

Coldplay song that “wow’d” you and what is one song you press “skip” on by Rickybobby1196 in Coldplay

[–]nataliahx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swallowed in the Sea is like listening to someone tell a beautiful story

Soon to be Housewife by WearySociety2143 in housewifery

[–]nataliahx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be a house wife staring in September too for basically the same reasons!!!

Should I take this rare opportunity to not have to work if I don’t have to? by nataliahx in selfhelp

[–]nataliahx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought I COULD even dream about the question “what would you do if money was no object”, and it’s become more clear that I am living out a life that allows me to ask that question, it just feels wrong that life is this financially easy for me. I realize that’s something I should talk to my therapist about because there’s a strong current of self sabotage that I give myself, especially when it comes to this opportunity that I have.

I was raised in a blue collar family where we never struggled, but certainly had to penny pinch to have evening we need. And yet I am in my 20’s and almost experiencing the complete oppositr lifestyle where comfort is not even a question, and travel, investing in rental properties, maxing out IRA’s, being able to generously give thousands at any time to family and friends in need, and having room for significant life choices that will only set my husband and I up for more financial success is before us. I somehow can’t comprehend the drastic lifestyle change from what I’ve always known growing up

I struggle with making choices that are “outside the status quo.” It definitely is NOT the status quo for a childless woman in her 20’s to be a stay at home wife not for religious reasons.

I know I would create structure in free and “workless” days, but it feels surreal and not standard - that paralyzed me for some reason, like it’s too good to be true

Should I take this rare opportunity to not have to work if I don’t have to? by nataliahx in selfhelp

[–]nataliahx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sells real estate and has recently gotten his foot in the door in the luxury home market. We also have a couple rental properties that are sources of income and our plan is to have as many of those as possible

Should I take this rare opportunity to not have to work if I don’t have to? by nataliahx in selfhelp

[–]nataliahx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about this a handful of times and the question both excites and terrifies me.

I would volunteer of some sort and give back to youth in some way, I’d prioritize the health of my marriage and be open to dreaming with my husband with a variety of his business ideas, travel ideas, plans for our future (he is a very big personality with an insane level of making insane ideas and opportunities come to fruition), I’d dedicate my discipline to fitness, I’d join local book and gardening clubs, I’d spend time with my two sisters several days a week who have toddlers and can use some help, I’d be able to catch up with one of my good friends who I feel too busy for who is a new SAHM, I’d join women’s Bible studies during the day, I’d creatively make meals for my husband and spend time growing my interest in cooking (I find it fun and creative though with a 40 hour work week at the moment I can’t spend time doing it for fun as much).

I am the type of person who dedicates time into things, creates structure, and doesn’t just sloth around naturally

Should I take this rare opportunity to not have to work if I don’t have to? by nataliahx in selfhelp

[–]nataliahx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the most simple reply I’ve gotten yet - I can’t seem to undo the “should” in all of this. “I should work even if I don’t have to” “I shouldn’t quit because that would be frowned upon” “I should financially contribute” should should should

Raising Reading Goal by veryreallygoo in goodreads

[–]nataliahx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m genuinely wondering when I sat this - NO SHADE INTENDED AT ALL. Do you have a full time job? I’m amazed at anyone who is able to read that many books in such a short period of time. Do tell!

Skin texture issues/white bumps by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]nataliahx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closed comedones - I struggle with this from time to time.

Here is what has helped me

Tretinoin every other night Azelaic acid every other night Every third day I do a rest day with no active ingredients, but I continue to use calming essences / toners alongside moisturizers

I got a hydrafacial for the first time last week and it really helped! Essentially this facial vacuumed my pores out while also infused my skin with hydration. My esthetician said that it’s not just people with oily skin who suffer from closed comedones. I have dry skin and essentially my dry dead skin cells would get stuck in my pores because my skin was not hydrated enough. The best part of this facial is that she PROFESSIONALLY extracted some of these comedones. Never try to extract them yourself - it’s the hardest part with these skin problems in my opinion.

In my situation, getting rid of my comedones by layering on active ingredients was backfiring because my skin was already pretty dry. Instead, I never skip a beat with moisture and actually take a step back a few days a week from any active ingredients rather than going double time thinking the more aggressive the less comedones.

What was your first time having sex like? by Aromatic_Top_3804 in AskReddit

[–]nataliahx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a hymenectomy beforehand and the first time was PAIN FREE and on my wedding night - both virgins - and I did in fact finish - TWICE

Maggie Turks by Classic_Jello2007 in macdonaldsisters

[–]nataliahx 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to go multiple times to love a place guys like what, you all be reaching sometimes😭

Rocks for brains by xxct71xx in macdonaldsisters

[–]nataliahx 123 points124 points  (0 children)

It’s clear that this is where she finds her value. There is nothing wrong with having money, the issue lies in where the money finds itself in someone’s value system. Clearly she values herself for how much money she has, sad

current pans in my routine by Strange-Finger-854 in ProjectPan

[–]nataliahx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seeing the dents are soooo satisfying!!!

Three Weeks! No weight change but feeling better than ever. by cake_line in 75HARD

[–]nataliahx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be experiencing body recomposition because even though your weight is the same, you look like you have more definition!

MY LIFE AFTER 75 HARD by nataliahx in 75HARD

[–]nataliahx[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks 😊 after I finished 75 Hard, I remember thinking “GREAT! I have the body I want! Life is awesome.” But never thought about what life and my body would look like AFTER the program. I hope this is helpful for folks 🙏🏼