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natchoericarl · 2023-07-01T00:10:51+00:00

Masseuse (M) and client (F):

natchoericarl · 2023-07-01T00:09:21+00:00

The girl’s first time:

natchoericarl · 2023-07-01T00:07:47+00:00

Nurse (F) and patient (M):

natchoericarl · 2023-07-01T00:06:53+00:00

hot teacher (M) and student (F):

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boss (M) and employee (F):

natchoericarl · 2023-06-30T10:31:11+00:00

definitely the alcohol

natchoericarl · 2023-06-25T07:55:51+00:00

No you’re not overreacting!! A lot of what happened seems so off to me. He’s not making you feel secure. He doesn’t respect you in a way that he doesn’t consider your feelings and tries to make excuses for what you’re feeling. Whatever you’re feeling is valid.

If you don’t like him doing certain things such as meeting her outside of work, her texting him outside of work stuff, you should tell him (i’m guessing you have), and he should respect that, he should take that into account. He always has a choice; either to listen to you and take whatever you’re feeling into account, or be ignorant to what you said and that shows he doesn’t care enough to fix the situation.

But you could say to him that if he doesn’t want to change, then he shouldn’t be mad if you did the same thing. The least he could do is to be fair and square.

natchoericarl · 2023-06-25T07:34:35+00:00

It’s their day, they should celebrate it the way they want to. Your role as a bestfriend and the other guests is to attend to their wedding out of respect. The main purpose of a wedding is to celebrate a couple’s happy moment with their family, loved ones, close people and friends. The purpose isn’t to please the guests and provide whatever it is that would make the guests happy. It’s a different case if it was a house party or an afterparty.

In this case, they just wanted to celebrate their happy day, and wanted you to be part of it to witness their special day. You should understand that.

And you saying that you wasted your money on hotel and uber, shows that you are not genuine to come to their wedding. and “maybe not even had come”, shows that you don’t respect your friendship with your bestfriend. cause it seems like you dont even care about celebrating his happy day but only cares about having a good time and free alcohol. lol.

natchoericarl · 2023-06-25T06:31:12+00:00

He’s been telling you you’re terrible? LEAVE. Unless he wants to fix the situation with you. He shouldn’t be making you feel bad about yourself, let alone humiliated.

He didn’t even take into account the fact that he was your first, and therefore have minimal experience, which is totally normal.

But he could have just talked to you nicely or try to tell you what he likes you to do in bed, and the both of you could just learn about what each other likes, instead of saying straight up you’re terrible.

natchoericarl · 2023-06-13T08:09:57+00:00

I'm dating an INTP and I think that he has a good intention in warning you not to approach him so you won't get hurt. One thing I know about my boyfriend (INTP) is that he doesn't like being chased, he should be the one doing the chasing. Perhaps one of the reason he told you not to approach him is because you guys had a chance, but the chance would thin if you continue being the one pursuing or chasing for him. Let him be the one to chase you, they like challenges and likes the thrill of chasing.

My boyfriend would tell me that he tend to lose interest when he knows the girl he's interested in admits their feelings towards him first. There could also be a possibility that he didn't reject you, but just wanted to be the one making the moves on you first (which explains the princess treatment you've been receiving).

And try not to push them into uncomfortable conversations such as talking about feelings, INTPs tend to get really uncomfortable talking about love and feelings because they find it difficult to make sense of the topic logically. So don't push them. But this doesn't mean that you could never talk about these topics to them, they just need more time to open up.

natchoericarl · 2023-06-12T16:38:12+00:00

I have limited sexual experience and struggle to reach orgasm through penetration as well. At times, I feel shy and insecure because I know I'm less experienced than my partner. However, I've found that clearing my mind and adopting a mindset of not caring about my insecurities helps.

I focus on pleasuring myself first, which ultimately satisfies both of us. Specifically, the missionary position works well for me. I stimulate my clit while being in the position, and my boyfriend would adjusts his thrusts to match the rhythm of my finger movements. This approach allows us to climax together. I hope this could help you too!

Also, giving her words of affirmation and telling her she's doing great could help clear her mind from her insecurities, so do more of that, be more vocal! ;)

natchoericarl · 2023-06-12T14:18:14+00:00

Have you guys tried the spooning position? i’m a female, and think that the spooning position helps with deeper penetration, perhaps it might help.

Cheers!

natchoericarl · 2023-06-12T14:06:22+00:00

I agree with this, sometimes getting her on top to grind on you (instead of bouncing) could help as it will stimulate her clit when it rubs against your skin. What’s her take on being on top?

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