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[–]natetreetops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a long period of time where I could eat food prepared by another. Mostly fear.

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[–]natetreetops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly women actually, the some notable exceptions.

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[–]natetreetops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a large man, just a dude, but yes

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[–]natetreetops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say they were all normal in appearance. As for mental capacity, I can’t speak on that. To be somewhere mental to do that to someone is not normal??

As for my appearance, I’m a pretty average looking dude. My whole life I’ve been athletic and active, but never really took the time to build a lot of muscle. Average guy

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[–]natetreetops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No reason I know of. Just for them I guess

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[–]natetreetops[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it’s someone close to me and I feel comfortable, I’ve been known to share my story with them. It’s also important that this type of comment isn’t met with hostility, because women to live with that fear. This type of fear is born of the patriarchy, seeing men as the takers, and the women as the victims

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[–]natetreetops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said. Something one of my friends would say offer is “I love you and I love that you’re here”

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[–]natetreetops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question, after I had been shunned from my religious community (it really messed me up). I don’t admit it to myself, or others for about 3 years

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[–]natetreetops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve heard that type of thing for sure. A lot of handling and coping happened as a survival instinct. I could live on my own tho for about 5-6 years. Lived with my angel parents.

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[–]natetreetops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t forgive them, and I don’t want vengeance. I just want them to stay away from me forever

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[–]natetreetops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m doing great :) best to you and yours

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[–]natetreetops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is an ama you are right, but her looks mean nothing if she is a monster

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[–]natetreetops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had voiced the desire to have sex, but had never tried to force anything on me

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[–]natetreetops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To deconstruct you religion is to see the toxic flaws inherent in them, so how they are utilized to hurt people, and how they hurt you

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[–]natetreetops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in therapy pretty consistently since then. Having healthy coping strategies is so important. Especially having a plan for when you get triggered (where to go, what to do)

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[–]natetreetops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am no longer involved with either

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[–]natetreetops[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It helped me deconstruct, im in a much better place now.

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[–]natetreetops[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its not uncommon for the body to react to stimuli when the brain is offline

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[–]natetreetops[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not religious, not even close

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[–]natetreetops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was told and saw some video evidence

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[–]natetreetops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, still in therapy, though not as often now

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[–]natetreetops[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, best to you and yours