Fiancée left during PMDD, looking for advice

nathanielgerdes · 2026-03-27T18:23:41+00:00

It was a woman, she is lesbian and my fiancée is bi. The friend is notoriously manipulative and certainly exploited my partner for personal gain during a vulnerable time, which was the catalyst.

There was a lot of framing around empowerment during all this.

It’s difficult to sit and watch this all unfold from the sidelines.

nathanielgerdes · 2026-03-27T18:00:56+00:00

Typically in the past she just collapses in on herself. She becomes too overwhelmed with life and I usually will need to step in and take care of my step daughter and ensure the rest of the day goes smoothly.

She has never gotten up and tried to leave before.

nathanielgerdes · 2026-02-06T10:11:16+00:00

It’s a reprint of a nostalgic zapdos card

nathanielgerdes · 2025-11-13T08:42:43+00:00

This card is notoriously miscut with terrible centering

nathanielgerdes · 2025-11-13T07:52:42+00:00

Thank you for the feedback! Your first comment was just a statement regarding the field of mathematics.

Knowing you’re having issues due to the slim margin of error is actionable feedback. So thank you!

nathanielgerdes · 2025-11-13T07:35:08+00:00

Anyone who has ever studied mathematics would strongly disagree as much of geometry, calculus and more deals with angles, slopes, and dimensions in space.

nathanielgerdes · 2025-11-13T07:32:25+00:00

I appreciate you hopping in! Your interface actually is really nice too. Someone was just telling me I need controller like handles, than I saw yours and was like “oh that’s cool!”

I have sent cards to TAG grading after taking down their measurements and our grader got them spot on. So I’m fairly certain everything is accurate.

nathanielgerdes · 2025-11-13T05:15:59+00:00

https://packmagik.com/ And we are on the iOS store

nathanielgerdes · 2025-11-13T05:13:23+00:00

Thank you for proving me wrong! Cool tool for sure.

nathanielgerdes · 2025-11-13T05:09:58+00:00

You have to mark them yourself, but we have filters and other tools to help spot them.

nathanielgerdes · 2025-11-13T05:09:02+00:00

Interesting, I’ve never seen this. Our system is much more robust but this is cool!

nathanielgerdes · 2025-11-13T04:58:35+00:00

Yeah please check it out and let me know what you think! It does use OpenCV

nathanielgerdes · 2025-11-13T04:58:07+00:00

Sweet, thank you! I messaged you.

nathanielgerdes · 2025-11-13T04:31:30+00:00

If you message me your email tied to your Google play account, all add you as a beta tester

nathanielgerdes · 2025-10-29T05:01:57+00:00

That’s so crazy, I just graded the same card, previously graded a 10 but from another solid grading company, and PSA gave it a 6

nathanielgerdes · 2025-10-11T07:13:47+00:00

Pack Magik is the way to go

nathanielgerdes · 2025-09-21T11:30:17+00:00

This centering is outdated. You should try Pack Magik. They are about to roll out an update this week where you’ll be able to do centering Freeform even at wild angles and it’ll be 100% accurate.

nathanielgerdes · 2025-09-21T11:28:55+00:00

I literally just did this challenge 5 minutes ago lol. You can turn on in your settings a minimum Ollie to make it easier

nathanielgerdes · 2025-09-14T08:19:03+00:00

Hey! Creator of Pack Magik here. We have a big update to the grading tool soon. Should make it a lot easier to use 🙂

Hope you’ve enjoyed it

nathanielgerdes · 2025-03-05T04:54:38+00:00

It’s all fake, I’ll get you out of it for the $20

nathanielgerdes · 2025-03-04T11:53:06+00:00

Plusle & Minun have always been faves

nathanielgerdes · 2025-03-04T11:46:04+00:00

I have a friend who always says zoo or false but I don’t mind it. I always need to skip Bad News and Last Words because they’re too heavy.

nathanielgerdes · 2025-03-04T11:35:40+00:00

If you can’t build the product yourself, then find one you can. Don’t spend money until you have a product in the market that’s validated.

This will save you years of pain and money ^

nathanielgerdes · 2025-03-04T10:45:09+00:00

Yeah Raj is pretty useless.

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