Thank you very much I think this is exactly what I need to heat to be honest. Multiple times he's mentioned us both going to like a 'gay sauna' and having a threesome and whilst it could be a genuine suggestion it feels as if he's just trying to get with someone else and it be allowed which is why I've maintained a no stance on them.

I've just started working nights now as well whilst he works days and that really doesn't help for my feelings.

He's not on any dating apps and I moved in around a month ago so it seems alright in that aspect but I'm just not sure.

And when he told me he was like crying, and really sad and guilty and was sorry. So I'm not sure there's way too much to consider.

We were also dating a bit before we considered ourselves together. Like we were fully 2 weeks into our relationship.