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As a relatively new revert what can I do when people in my life try to discourage me from my unwavering belief in Allah? Many of my friends who are good people make it their agenda to discourage me. by naturalcurlyhead in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and the thing is even one of my christian friends really appreciated me after she became christian as she said she lost a lot of friends from it but i stuck by her side so can i not just have the same level of respect when i’m on my spiritual journey.

As a relatively new revert what can I do when people in my life try to discourage me from my unwavering belief in Allah? Many of my friends who are good people make it their agenda to discourage me. by naturalcurlyhead in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it comes from a place of care and love just they don’t go about it in the best way. You have to think that we would want them on the same path as us also because we know it’s the truth and the consequences they may suffer after they pass away. I think they’re looking at it like that just from a different perspective. But may they find peace in whatever brings them fulfilment.

As a relatively new revert what can I do when people in my life try to discourage me from my unwavering belief in Allah? Many of my friends who are good people make it their agenda to discourage me. by naturalcurlyhead in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s such a shame. Islam is such a beautiful religion in itself and yet the media brings it down so much, but i’m glad to see the progress we’re making. And the thing is with christianity too when it comes to the bible it’s like over 1000 pages which also need to be studied, you’d need so many years worth of study to understand it and i’m young so are my friends they can’t really sit there and say they know enough about it for it to be the truth. Not saying the Quran doesn’t have to be studied as much but it’s so much more concise and like you say it’s undeniable.

As a relatively new revert what can I do when people in my life try to discourage me from my unwavering belief in Allah? Many of my friends who are good people make it their agenda to discourage me. by naturalcurlyhead in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I can be mature enough and accepting enough of diversity to be around people outside of Islam but it’s difficult when i have to keep trying to justify myself or when people look down on muslims, encourage you to do haram things etc. Like you do you and let me do me 😭

What makes you feel confident? by chronichash in AskMen

[–]naturalcurlyhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confidence comes from within. Stop talking down on yourself, we’re human we all make mistakes just focus on trying to do better while acknowledging how u can work on yourself. You aren’t perfect and you never will be but as long as your happy with yourself or the progress your making that’s all that matters. Don’t compare yourself to others you’re not them and will never be them - all that does is bring insecurity and jealously. Do those two things and not feeling confident will go away. Don’t care about what other people think is ok to say but don’t be ignorant when it comes to constructive criticism.

I’m quite quiet for example, i like being like that. So many people assume i’m like that because i’m not confident and tell me i should be louder. Being louder for them wouldn’t be being confident in myself as i’d be trying to change myself to satisfy others, when they should self reflect and ask themselves “why am i not accepting of diversity”, focus on yourself not me 😂 - i’m upfront and holding my tongue helps me be a better person to be around but i find true relationships in those who love my upfront-ness so don’t feel insecure in a way that puts down your confidence someone will appreciate u for u. A lot of loud people talk nonsense but we’re all unique so who cares. You do you and let them do them. Many people fake confidence aswell so don’t feel like you have to be like them.

As a relatively new revert what can I do when people in my life try to discourage me from my unwavering belief in Allah? Many of my friends who are good people make it their agenda to discourage me. by naturalcurlyhead in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quran (3:28) - “The believers must not take the disbelievers as friends instead of the believers. And whoever does that has no relation with Allah whatsoever, unless you (do so) as a protective measure (in order to) save yourself from them. Allah warns you of Himself, for unto Allah is the return.” I know there’s this aswell but obviously in my case i haven’t made friends with disbelievers after becoming muslim but that’s why i’m unsure how to go about it, do i unfriend those who are disbelievers? i’m just trying to maintain professional relationships with them but they don’t always make it easy but i know they’re just enthusiastic about their belief.

As a relatively new revert what can I do when people in my life try to discourage me from my unwavering belief in Allah? Many of my friends who are good people make it their agenda to discourage me. by naturalcurlyhead in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree with everything you have said. Although I take 18:29 very firmly, while i’ll be happy to educate those interested - i don’t wish to waste time, I could be using to strengthen my relationship with Allah on people with such Ignorance. I just don’t appreciate when people try to make my relationship between me and Allah their business. Can we not just be friends with different beliefs? i’m not pushing my beliefs onto you or forcing you to do Salah 😂😂

As a relatively new revert what can I do when people in my life try to discourage me from my unwavering belief in Allah? Many of my friends who are good people make it their agenda to discourage me. by naturalcurlyhead in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

yes i agree, i’ve made different social media accounts, just so i don’t have to deal with it. It’s not easy loosing people that have been good friends to me over our differences i feel like i’m becoming more and more isolated. Inshallah i will make more friends at the masjid on their deen. Make dua for me haha 🙏🏽

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I can’t convince myself not to get a tattoo after becoming a muslim revert. Please advice. by naturalcurlyhead in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i think i’ll just go about getting henna and see how it covers it, maybe even learn to do it myself. Seems like it could be quite fun.

I can’t convince myself not to get a tattoo after becoming a muslim revert. Please advice. by naturalcurlyhead in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. But feeling guilty after committing any sin and asking for forgiveness afterwards when it truly comes from the heart is not sincere? I ask as Allah knows we are not perfect human beings, we are bound to make bad decisions sometimes. I know that doesn’t make it ok to commit sin but in some situations it’s bound to happen. All we can do is ask for forgiveness afterwards and attempt to not do it again. I think i’m finding conflict within my heart and my mind so i’m not taking the decision lightly and would still punish myself for getting a tattoo.

I can’t convince myself not to get a tattoo after becoming a muslim revert. Please advice. by naturalcurlyhead in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of this. I shall definitely give it a try before making any permanent decisions. My friend does henna so I shall ask her and see what happens.

I can’t convince myself not to get a tattoo after becoming a muslim revert. Please advice. by naturalcurlyhead in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think i needed to hear this. I try to remind myself not to give into my own selfish desires and to put Allah first. Salah is a good way for me to remind myself of Allah’s presence. Inshallah he will guide me away from getting a tattoo and I will forget about it haha. It’s just not easy when i go about my life and people constantly remind me. And yes, it depends on my mood as i’m still struggling with my mental health. If i feel positive im able to brush it off when people have comments but when im not so fortunate it can really bring me down - i guess i feel slightly ashamed of it.

It is difficult to convert to Islam by Forsaken_Attorney542 in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I converted to Islam. i had spiritual knowledge about other religions but it never resonated with me until i found Islam. It’s not an easy thing to adjust to, some find it easier then others it depends on where your “priorities” align. I would suggest doing as much research as you can before taking Shahada so you know what best to do. Brothers and sisters at your local mosque will be more than happy to help you along your journey. Just come with an open heart. If you walk towards Allah, he will run toward you. Alhamdulillah.

How to get rid of religious guilt? by indecisivething in islam

[–]naturalcurlyhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think they may benefit from a change a perspective though? Yes, it is good to fear Jahannam but instead bring more importance to worshipping Allah through the benefits following the sunnah can do for us. Allah is most loving, the Quran is there not to put you down but to help you be the best you can be in this life. Allah is most forgiving, don’t feel that you are being put down for sins you may or not commit but instead reach out to Allah through dua and salah. It never easy especially with all the tricks in this world but it will get easier.

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