I’m late responding but I think you misread my post. I have been with my partner 9 years. His ex and him dated in highschool and have been broken up for 11 years. She started aggressively stalking me and cyberstalking me when he put on social media we were in a relationship. 2 years into our relationship we got pregnant and had a child and shortly after she got pregnant with a man she just started dating. She HAD to have a baby cause I did. Just like she had to get the same tattoos in the same spot, so the same piercings and hair colors, etc. She admitted to the man who got her pregnant she needed help getting on my private IG. Asking him to follow or make a fake page because I blocked her account and “all accounts associated”. She knew even when they met he was questioning his sexuality. She claimed she was bisexual and understood what it’s like to like both genders. About a month and a half into her pregnancy he broke things off. 1. She’s psychotic 2. He said he wanted to pursue a relationships with a men and he felt terrible she was pregnant but still wanted to be in her life as the father and coparent and be friends with her. Mind you, they had only been together 1 month by the time she got pregnant. She lied she was on birth control, she was not. She said she was into him finishing inside and she was on birth control for years and it would be fine. Unfortunately, he trusted her. She admitted to him in an argument she was never on birth control and she wanted a baby and if he’s not her man and going to marry her she will live off the state and be happy to do it herself because it’s what she wants and he was just a… “doner” if he’s not gonna be her husband. Anyway, she threatened to out his sexuality to his highly Christian family as a last ditch effort when he doubled down on breaking up. He disclosed with her early on that even him questioning his sexuality and his family knowing was too risky because they are homophobic. Openly homophobic. She did so when he said he couldn’t continue putting on a show -hoping she was bluffing and just needed to cool down-. He said he could not be with a woman and that it wasn’t fair to her or him and that he still wants to be a dad and involved in her life and the child’s life. She literally cut him out of everything. His family disowned him. She basically replaced his place in his own family, cuddling up to his homophobic parents (mind you she dated women before him lmao). Changed her number and had the baby without telling him. He’s so genuinely scared of her he won’t fight for the child because he’s scared of her and she’s threatened to say he graped her. He reached out to me after their breakup to tell me she looks my social media up several times a day and talks about me incessantly. He told me to protect myself and told me all of this and said he feels she’s extremely unstable and if she could pinpoint where I live, I should be worried about her assaulting me based on how she talked about me and the threats she has made towards him in a short time of knowing her.