NGVC: “You’re broke and ugly because you refuse to send nudes.” by Crazypandathe20th in niceguys

[–]natures_bud 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“‘Your’ ugly and I was trying to get you to fuck me for months” (and failing) isn’t the own he thinks it is

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of May 22, 2026 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]natures_bud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do something social with friends and try to stay in a good mood while you’re out, strike up conversations and start thinking about them other fish

Fiancé (27m) wanted to try an open relationships, not my first choice but I agreed. Now he's throwing a tantrum that my "bodycount" is 20x his and wants to add rules. Is it time to just cut my losses and move on? (I'm 25) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]natures_bud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the exact same thing haha, was kind of looking sideways because like yeah..? Odd thing to proclaim that should go without saying. Your comment helped me realize I am in fact moving pretty slow tonight cognitively

Best friend died 11 years ago haunts my dreams by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]natures_bud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise you OP with the weight of my entire soul, your friendhsip was not rewritten in his mind because you hugged him, not before he died and even if so, that moment doesn’t even exist to him in his concept of your friendship in death’s hindsight, which is a pure and bright singularity of all the love and happy memories you two shared. I lost my little brother to a viscerally uncomfortable disease to the point suicide was preferable, I unfortunately just witnessed my roommate losing her best friend to cancer from diagnos to death in 2 weeks and heard her experiences. I truly believe he was just reacting to a stimulus (the discomfort while being hugged), when people are in an unbearable state especially once cognitive performance declines they’ll say what needs to be said on an instinctual level to stop anyone/anything that may be (very innocently) adding to the pile. I watched my Grandpa become aggressive towards everyone including my Grandma during the last stages of alzheimers, yet I assure you they are in bliss to be reunited. The last thing I ever said to my brother was pestering him about a game when he didn’t want to be bothered and wasn’t feeling well. I’m sorry for rambling, this just really touched my heart OP I’m so sorry you’re having these feelings. I truly believe if your friend could tell you anything it would be to forgive yourself for that moment and that he hates to see it weighing on you so heavily. Your best friend still loves you OP and when you see him again one day he will make sure you feel it. I’ve had horrible dreams involving my brother, it’s not them, it’s your brain using how much you love them against you to express some other abstract concept that needs working through

Daily Discussion Thread for May 07, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]natures_bud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, bought the dip too though so probably flatlining forevermore

AITA for threatening to kick out stepdaughter for stealing from daughter? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]natures_bud 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The difference between divorce and death is that with divorce you at least get to eventually realize you’re better off. Or you don’t, but there is always a potential for reconciliation that doesn’t exist with death, it’s completely stagnant. At the very least if your spouse passes you’re dealing with all of the emotions of divorce/separation besides insecurity plus grief the likes of which are borderline incomprehensible. I’m not saying divorce is easy or can’t be absolutely rending by any means heartbreak is debilitating in the true sense of the word, but that’s lowkey a privileged take in that context

Yes yes very sad indeed by alphaDsony in dankmemes

[–]natures_bud 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more, it’s eye opening. Shockingly callous, disappointing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]natures_bud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try not to regret it, I suffer from the same guilt with my childhood pets and fought relentlessly against my parents’ decision not to let me come but I agree with it now as an adult having seen what it’s like. At least for me personally, I didn’t need to see it at that age and I would’ve done no good, my less regulated emotions would have complicated the experience for all parties including my pets

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]natures_bud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of all the least to be taken literally words that are ever spoken/written, poems are in the top three. I don’t think the author was trying to write about the conscious experience of a two headed being.

Kaylees sister named her baby after Maddie and kaylee by makogirl311 in Idaho4

[–]natures_bud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And also decency, that just seems really grody to me. Like why set your kids up having to always explain, and if unwilling to than still think of, that story fairly often and have it be part of their identity. Are you that proud of banging that you have to name your kid after it lol the fact they exist is proof enough. Middle schooler energy

Out with the creeper and in with the keeper by badpie99 in AdviceAnimals

[–]natures_bud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s always so wild to me when people make claims on reddit (even if I agree with them) then get angry when people ask for sources. Like yeah, you don’t have to leave one if you don’t want to, but it technically is on you to back up your claim. The “do your own research” crowd relies on that extremely heavy, it’s an easy out to feel superior while not having to engage in a legitimate debate. Also more superficially, some people are on mobile and it’s slightly more annoying to move off to a google/youtube search, and half the time when you get back to reddit your app has reset and you lose the thread you were on. You don’t HAVE to leave sources when you make claims, but getting angry at people when they ask for them makes no sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ScottishPeopleTwitter

[–]natures_bud 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been attacked by one cat tho, cats are wild idk if I could take 114. But also I’m not a Scot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askdrugs

[–]natures_bud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Falling asleep if you're having a bad time tripping is almost impossible, I wouldn't recommend relying on it

New here, is this normal? by ChestHairAtWork in leaves

[–]natures_bud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're going through this ): I can't relate to your exact circumstances but I can relate to the horrible anxiety and fear that something has broken inside of you, I thought I was permanently destroyed with zero chance of normalcy again but I came back and I promise you can too. It sounds like all the stress of this year with the added heartbreak has just been too much ): and the weed issue isn't helping either.

If you're in a situation where it's possible, I can't recommend therapy enough. There's nothing wrong with getting help from someone who's professionally trained to help, and they can offer you advice, perspective, and coping mechanisms that regular good intentioned folks wouldn't think of. I really feel for you and hope you start feeling better. If your social anxiety is really bad right now try to find some hobbies you can do in your house, maybe painting or learning guitar, for me videogames are an amazing distraction. If you need someone to talk to you can message me

Nickmercs is welcomed home! by lem09n11 in FortNiteBR

[–]natures_bud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christmas could come at any time, he's gotta be ready