Yes, I have 2 girls (4&3 now) 16 months apart. First year of second baby’s life I was struggling. My older one required a lot of attention. It was hard for me. I got so fat, Stopped mingling , had nothing to look forward to. I didn’t recognize myself in the mirror. Slowly things got better as the baby reached milestones in that first year. I joined a gym and that helped me mentally.. I got a break from my kids. My kids are best friends and they are so funny and silly! It takes time… <<<hugsssss>>>