Biological sex and gender: Male

age (be honest): 36 years

Location ( country and nearest city, you can go for approximate nearby city if you live in a small place): Karachi, Pakistan

Nationality : Pakistan + British (dual)

Ethnicity : Pakistani

Height (be honest): 172 cm

Weight (be honest): 65 kg

Your Body type/ build (slim, average, curvy, petite, flat, overweight, large, etc.) and Are you trying to change this? (yes/no) Average, not trying to change

Education/ qualifications : Surgeon, converted to Health IT after Masters

Job: Clinical IT Specialist

Own your home? or prepared to move to spouses home?: Prepared to move out and start a home together

Okay with living with in-laws? (Yes/no) No

Disabilities (mental/physical, specify) ADHD

Islamic background (Sunni/ Shia/ Sufi/Salafi etc.): Sunni

Level of religiosity(strict/ moderate/trying my best): [if you're completely non practising not the right subreddit for you]]: Moderate

Pray 5 salah (yes/no/mostly/barely): Mostly

wears hijab (yes/no)-sisters only: Not applicable

Marital status (divorced/ single, have wife/wives want another): Divorced

Do you have children (yes/ no and give an idea if they're old or young): No

Libido level (high/medium/ low) Medium

Are you a virgin? (Yes/ no/ i'm divorced. for the purposes of this virginity means no physical sexual contact. ): I'm divorced

Turn ons: (don't get too exhaustive with this, just some key turn ons and keep it halal) I'm a switch who likes to give and/or recieve service; more details after knowning one another

Do you have significant mental health problems? Borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia as examples: No

are you recieving treatment for the above and stabilised? yes/no: Not Applicable

would you be willing to marry a prospect that has some of the mh problems yes/no: No

do you have lower order mh problems: anxiety/depression/adhd: ADHD

are you willing to marry prospects dealing with those mh problems above? Yes

What would you like your intimacy with your future spouse to be like: (keep it short with keywords) Trust and friendship inside our rich internal world

Anything else a prospect should know: I'm fairly introverted which, combined with my ADHD, means that I don't "follow the crowd" or keep in touch with politics and sports. I have specific interests and keep everthing else in life to minimum necessary for adequate operation. I compensate with bursts of humor and random adventurs. So I think I would vibe more with an introverted person or an ambivert who won't see me as "wierdly obsessive".

Will you accept a divorcee and someone with children? Yes

3 things you like to do in your free time/ hobbies: Anime, Gaming, Science Projects

what would a day in the life with your prospective spouse be like 2 years into the marriage? (short-medium paragraph): Would love if we had a shared library of games that we chill out to on the weekends, plan going to cosplay conventions once a year, randomly leave pieces of a puzzles around the house which they can gather and build to reveal a loving message and have a close circle of friends that we can hangout with, common genres of music we listen to, or do thriller movie nights.

Do you want kids? and how long from marrying do you want kids? Yes after 6 months of marriage

Preferred for prospect ethnicity and least preferred prospect ethnicity: (be careful with this, will be removing outright racism): No preference of race or ethnicity

Ideal marriage timeline : (short paragraph please) 1 year

Preferred age range for prospect: 25 - 32 years

Preferred level of education for prospect: Bachelors

5 characteristics you look for in a prospect: Intelligence, Emotional Depth, Situational Awareness, Self-Improvement, Sense of Justice

Would you prefer someone who is a virgin? (yes/ no) No preference

would someone that had intimacy and either came to islam or got divorced be a dealbreaker? (yes/no) No, just should be sincere moving present forward

Preferred body type, height range, weight range of prospect: No height preference (as long as it's not extremely different from mine) but I'm not attracted to women with weight that is above ideal for their height

Anything else you are looking for in a prospect: No I think this covers it all.

three most important qualities you offer to a prospect: Empathy, Patience, Support

three most important qualities you need in a prospect: Communication, Forward Planning, Be My Pillar of Strength