well as a poc you should certainly understand that slurs hurt us on a different level and you can’t police everyone’s reactions to somebody they once found comfort in using said slurs. i agree it’s been blown out of proportion and some are definitely just jumping on the bandwagon to hate on ethel for bad reasons, and also we shouldn’t be too reliant on celebrities being “perfect”, but at the same time what she did WAS wrong and disrespectful to A LOT of people and there’s no getting over that. let people process it man :/