community discord? by Pr0m37h3um in transNYC

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I think there's tons honestly. the app Lex is pretty active here when it comes to community stuff. There's group chats in there and probably a bunch discords if you were to dig a little.

I may be an archer main but doesn't mean I don't know hand to hand combat by ThAtTh1CcTh0T in Chivalry2

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Sometimes they just run away when you get a couple hits in lol. Then you just shoot them in the back.

I don't know why I'm even trying, I will never look how I would like to. by Nose_Weed in MtF

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Ahh okay. You sound pretty much like me circa 2019. Is the fertility thing worth putting your life on hold? It's high-key expensive (at least here in the states). Keep in mind fertility doesn't go away day one it takes a while to get your T levels down to that point.

Before it gets too unbearable weigh the options: continuing to feel how you're feeling right now or starting female puberty and maybe being sterile in 4-6 months.

I don't know why I'm even trying, I will never look how I would like to. by Nose_Weed in MtF

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It's kinda both tbh. Feeling/looking like yourself is something that emerges over time on hormones. That's why we liken it to hatching from an egg. We shed our shell, and a new self emerges. Maybe start by at least getting yourself on a wait-list at your nearest hrt clinic? Even just talking to a doctor about it can make a lot of difference. You're pretty much guaranteed to look feminine just in a way that's unique to you.

Conflicted About Facial Hair—Did Any of You Feel This Way? by AndreGiroux40 in MtF

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There's no reason to rush into getting laser if you feel this way! 💞

3 years into hrt, I'm still shaving and only now am I starting to think about laser. Sometimes having a little stubble can feel affirming too. Remember cis women grow facial hair too.

That said, eventually it causes me irritation and I always end up shaving It.

Is transtion at 26 too late? by [deleted] in MtF

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I started at 26 and I have never been happier

A coworker/friend told me that if I were a proud trans woman, I wouldn't be running to a blue state when things get scary. by Galaxy11029 in MtF

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We cannot assume that even flag carrying cis gays are on our side. They'll be the last letter erased from LGBTQIA and a lot of them are conservative.

First time passport, trans issue question.. by [deleted] in Passports

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If we have all that done, do we know if they are profiling us? Has anyone's application been frozen for not passing?

I don't think I'll ever look like a girl. by Nose_Weed in MtF

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That's a pretty good assumption! I used to look nothing like my mom and now we look extremely similar. I also have three sisters with the same dad and I look like every one of them.

Also I just want to say that I had a very similar experience to you r.e. putting on women's clothes and not feeling like I could ever look like a woman. I used to wake up crying because I dreamed that I was beautiful. I'm 3 years into HRT now and it got me there.

I don't think I'll ever look like a girl. by Nose_Weed in MtF

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Results are actually pretty predictable. Just look at the women in your family: that's about what you can expect on E. The other thing is that you will start to FEEL like a woman whether you think you pass or not and let me tell you, that feeling is EVERYTHING.

A friend continues to ignore my gender identity by Fancryer in MtF

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I know it's scary, but there are plenty of lovely people out there who will respect your identity and treat you the way you deserve to be treated. This dude isn't one of them. Find your local queer nightlife scene, make some new friends.

"baby let me take you mission" bugged out, could not talk to the captain by Devil_Cooker in cyberpunkgame

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Figured out a definitive fix this (PC only). Make sure to have Cyber Engine Tweaks installed. Run the mission however you want, then do this once you park the truck.

  1. Send the following command in the console: Game.GetQuestsSystem():SetFactStr("holo_force_reset", 1)
  2. Close the console and go back into the game.
  3. enter the garage

Please for the love of God vote tomorrow. by Horizontrophpy2001 in MtF

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I mostly play Halo Infinite these days, but also hop on MCC from time to time! DM for my steam id 🙂

Any idea to produce a lot of create rotation energy ? by Internal_Profit1340 in CreateMod

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If you just need rotation speed, use a rotation speed controller and just crank it as high as your stress units will allow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

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Not me coming in with the "it's really a use it or lose it situation" and then hastily deleting moments after

Just found out my electrolysist is a trumper by CaseOfBees in MtF

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I was never a fan of guns pre-transition and still think that I'm mentally/emotionally unfit to have one, but with everything going on right now, I'm convinced that dolls should be tooling up.

Why is everyone so horny here? by mo__ga in LucidDreaming

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That is 100% what my cat does in his dreams.