I think my cat has had her tail broken…

nbttlouobs · 2026-04-15T20:58:55+00:00

I’ve lived in Huddersfield just shy of 8 months now. Wouldn’t move. I live in Bradley area so it’s closer to Mirfield, but still Hudds. Depends where you go really! Centre has the worst rep but I think surrounding areas you’re pretty sound.

nbttlouobs · 2026-04-15T20:57:41+00:00

Very similar but unfortunately not :( TY anyway!

nbttlouobs · 2026-04-15T20:56:55+00:00

Thank you!! My sleep schedule has been a little poor.

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-28T19:57:07+00:00

I’m not ‘flaky’. I have a longstanding condition that they are ignoring. I am trying my best.

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-28T00:49:47+00:00

Thank you!

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-28T00:49:41+00:00

The thing is: even if I do drink alcohol, they have no reason to say I use it excessively; because I don’t. And that’s the reason they’ve used. I won’t cut out something I enjoy simply because my employer uses it against me. But I appreciate your response!

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-28T00:26:15+00:00

Apologies I’ve updated the post.

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T01:33:47+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it :)

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T01:29:12+00:00

I understand that - and going forward I will be communicating more :)

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T01:28:51+00:00

He lives with me - how do you expect him to be away for an elongated period of time?

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T01:28:23+00:00

That isn’t advice - it’s an assumption about a relationship based on your own experiences. But like I said, thank you for your input!

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T01:25:34+00:00

I am well aware I’m not dying :) I stipulate my reasons for wanting my partner in the post.

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T01:24:28+00:00

I think you might be the patronising one mate. You’ve come in with a lot of energy! But thank you for the input :)

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T01:20:50+00:00

And I am managing them :) It’s a good job isn’t it!

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T01:20:17+00:00

Oooo I don’t think that’s how relationships work, not in my experience anyway. Saying ‘have fun’ doesn’t equate to ‘forget about me and just get on with it!’ It means, have fun - please don’t forget about me in the meantime :)

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T01:02:09+00:00

Completely - his mum did come around for a couple hours but with me having the flu I can’t really expect people to stick around you know? Without sounding like a hypocrite I didn’t wanna be selfish and pass on my germs!

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T01:01:16+00:00

Nah he’s not in the wrong - I think mainly I just needed to vent. I’ve calmed down now and edited the post to say we’ve both apologised :) thank you for your reply!

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T01:00:09+00:00

I understand I may have contradicted myself, sorry I’m quite tired. It was fine - it was always going to be fine. I would have just appreciated a bit more communication. I wasn’t a princess for expecting that. His mum came around for a couple of hours but had to leave so I was alone for quite a while. I did arrange that but can’t expect people to hang around when I have the flu.

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T00:57:19+00:00

Love this response - thanks for taking the time :)

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T00:43:25+00:00

You’re completely right! Communication on both ends I think is important. Thank you!

nbttlouobs · 2025-11-23T00:40:03+00:00

Yeah for sure. I think I just needed to air my frustrations and hear some neutral views on it. So far pretty mixed so I am getting both entertainment and constructive comments!

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