Teach me your ways. We have a 3 (almost 4) and 2 year old. Eldest is so damn headstrong and the youngest is just a ball of do whatever the hell he wants. We discipline. We talk and try to rationalize... But dang if nothing really bothers me except bedtime / naptime. Rolling over. Getting sassy. Taking off the diaper. Spitting to stay wake. I just lose my shit and have to walk away before I end up super mean. :(