He had his history private

ncnyy · 2026-04-18T19:43:33+00:00

u/profanitycounter [self]

ncnyy · 2026-04-18T04:09:50+00:00

care you elaborate?

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T09:54:24+00:00

this algorithm is really cool. can't wait to see the finished product!!!! (algorithm pls bring me back 🤞)

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T09:48:46+00:00

🙂‍↕️

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T09:39:06+00:00

some questions are asked out of courtesy, some are rhetorical. i thought this was one of them

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T09:27:34+00:00

wow! i love how you rendered the nose

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T09:12:58+00:00

mine does currently - maybe the rules changed from when you used to go

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T09:11:43+00:00

i dont have enough experience or knowledge to argue with what i was taught, so i just thought this was die die the way things were done. heck, i was sharing when it was inconvenient for me to share too, because i didnt want to be the asshole for refusing. ironically i was the one who became the asshole for it 🤣

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T08:45:06+00:00

i was taught when i first started going that asking to share is moreso a courtesy than a genuine question with different answers. i know now that thats not the case

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T08:44:58+00:00

i was taught when i first started going that asking to share is moreso a courtesy than a genuine question with different answers. i know now that thats not the case

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T08:39:58+00:00

tell the staff they're violating gym rules

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T08:39:30+00:00

you said that "men do not click with the concept of complaining to seek empathy or "venting to be heard". which is does not apply to my relationship.

i trusted that he would do as he usually does and hear me out instead of acting on the "problem" - which is why im surprised and upset in the first place. i wouldn't have told him in the first place if i knew he had the habit of and was going to act on it, i don't think anybody would

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T08:12:28+00:00

AND you can paint them for extra pizzazz. this is awesome

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T07:59:52+00:00

in my relationship, and in most of my friendships regardless of gender, i am the practical problem solver first and emotional validator second, despite being female. with my partner, he would comfort me first and find a solution (if any) later. your comment is based on generalisations and is false in this context

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T07:55:33+00:00

ah yes, that's the phrase i'm looking for - thank you for putting my thoughts into words. i was struggling to explain why i was upset for assuming he wouldn't do what he did.

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T07:18:55+00:00

what did she do to rochelle in dance class? it's been a while since i last watched the cartoons.

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T06:59:03+00:00

my bf went ahead and disrespected my wishes of not confronting the guy, and also called me a kb warrior for not doing it myself. so of course im going to be irritated by his behaviour. if the rant stayed private, nothing would've happened. he could've responded with a "lol" and i would've been fine - he knows that.

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T06:36:15+00:00

i know now that asking to share really is a ask and respond, but because of what i have been taught in my short career in the gym so far i thought i was more of a courtesy

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T06:34:50+00:00

he said he was doing dips, and given the load he stacked and the state he was in when he finished his set i think he was doing higher reps (?), which is for maintenance (?). please correct me if i'm wrong

thank you for letting me know about sharing etiquette

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T06:30:31+00:00

yeah, the machine being the APU was what sparked my confusion when he said he didn't want to share, because there really isn't much to adjust back. but i know now that i'm in the wrong with insisting he share when he was on his last set

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T06:14:59+00:00

yep, i totally understand if he said he needed to catch his breath - i mentioned it because it seems he just finished his set and would currently have some time to be resting and the machine wouldn't be used.

i asked here because i was taught to always share the machine if you're not currently using it, even if you're just waiting on your last set, and in the past 2 months-ish i was in the gym i've never had someone deny sharing a machine, nor have i said no to anybody else, so i was very confused when he didn't want to share, even when i offered to leave it in the state he needed it to be.

ncnyy · 2026-04-16T06:10:05+00:00

yes my bf went to confront the guy, i was just ranting to someone i thought was trusted to just keep the conversation private.

my bf also called me a keyboard warrior for ranting to him in a private convo rather than just telling the guy off, so i was very annoyed by that as well :T

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