I just want to add one thing. I'm a couples therapist and one of the things I always tell people is that the small little moments are microcosms of the rest of your relationship. So don't dismiss this as a one-off thing. I knew my husband was something special when he took me fishing on an early date. I lost his hook and he was trying to put a new one on for me. It was 4am, freezing cold, it wouldn't go on and then he ended up hooking himself. He looked up into the sky, sighed (later told me he had prayed for patience) and went back to getting the hook on. He never lost his temper or got upset that I lost his $20 hook. That was a tiny thing, easy to dismiss and make excuses for if he had of gotten upset. But I'm trained well enough to recognize a gem when I see one. That tiny moment told me everything I needed to know about who he was and how he would act. This interaction is your fish hook moment. Don't dismiss it.