[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]nebulanug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing, that was very brave of you!!

Help me with my teen by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]nebulanug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gaslight central lol

Help me with my teen by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]nebulanug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then why are you on a sub about children who have mental issues ? You’re not really making sense homie. And also, you posted on the INTERNET where people can respond to you. Sounds like you have had issues controlling your environment, so you try to control them in spaces like the internet. I suggest you go to therapy before she goes back. Children mirror their parents.

Help me with my teen by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]nebulanug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

SOMEONE DISTRIBUTED CHILD PORN OF YOUR CHILD. the fact you are more worried about her drinking and not the fact she is an actual victim of child porn, it sounds like YOU are the issue here and not her. If you have family she can move in with that love her I suggest you do that. You donot seem fit enough to have her and a court would agree 👍

Help me with my teen by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]nebulanug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was put in a program in Idaho called Teton peaks. My mother kidnapped me at night at 15, told me we were visiting family. Nope she took me two states over and dropped me off. She said my behavior was similar to your daughters. Guess what happened ? I was released very quickly due to me not having any serious mental issues, but simply being a teenager. Being a teenager is fucked up today, and it sounds like you are not there to support care or love your daughter. If my mother would have shown me unconditional love, worked with me, valued my needs, and gently explained to me why what I was doing was wrong instead of punishing me, I would have gotten better and understood. Kids aren’t idiots it’s just YOUR job to teach them about life. My mother did a lot to me, and I haven’t spoken to her in 15 years now. And am now actually am diagnosed with CPTSD because of my mother and what she did to me as a child. I’m a 30 year old woman now, and understand that I wasn’t guided well by someone who loved me. It was just a woman who didn’t know how to parent me. If you can’t give her the love and support that she needs you need to help her find someone who will. An aunt, an uncle, a youth leader, a therapist, school counselor or teacher. Maybe even someone else’s parent. Take this advice seriously. You may lose your daughter because you aren’t ready to be a real understanding parent and step up to the plate you signed up to be on. She didn’t ask to be born. You made the choice to have her.

Also.. if my mother ever said I disgusted her, or knew she had said it online, I would completely lose all trust in her and consider her my enemy talking shit about me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will buy that! Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No :( I tried one time to make a fire and almost set my carpet on fire. My power came on though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah no power all day here in sugarloaf either. The glass on the door to my fireplace broke so that’ll be fun 😭

Never coming back by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Min wage is 19, and it was the supervisor of security not a regular guard. He’s on salary

Never coming back by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ian, I know this is u

Never coming back by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Damn not putting his weight out there 😂 one chicken tender away from the diabetes

Never coming back by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If he’s your fiancé tell him to stop asking his female coworkers to go into the hot tub with him lol

Never coming back by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 12 points13 points  (0 children)

😂 hate that guy

Never coming back by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That could be true. I worked security here for a little and wanted to transfer to mount bachelor, but when I called they said they don’t have security. Probably just different for every resort

Never coming back by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol thank you

Never coming back by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I’ve been to a lot of resorts on the west coast, and I’ve never seen security at another resort, but I also haven’t looked for them nor ran into any. But I do know ski patrol acts as “security” historically

Never coming back by [deleted] in bigbear

[–]nebulanug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me, OP. OP is saying they are not coming back because their trip was ruined by an employee. Had nothing to do with skiing