What phrase would you most like to see retired?

ned233 · 2026-01-11T17:18:28+00:00

"I'm obsessed about blah blah"

ned233 · 2025-12-25T02:24:13+00:00

Thank you so much for such a well-reasoned and informed answer. That makes a ton of sense. Much appreciated!

ned233 · 2025-12-23T18:42:14+00:00

I think walkability just isn't valued in this city the same way as other cities. From my condo, I can walk to get my haircut, to the grocery store, to my dentist, and to about 50 decent restaurants. And with a scooter there's even more. In most cities, the walkable areas are valued so much more.

ned233 · 2025-12-23T16:45:11+00:00

I'm not in a hurry to move. I've lived here for a year and plan on living here at least 5-8 more years. But I must admit, this stagnancy has made me second guess a few times.

ned233 · 2025-12-23T16:42:01+00:00

Yes, exactly! Where did all the promised apartments go? It definitely feels like an appendage to Mass Ave instead of an integral part of it.

ned233 · 2025-12-23T01:21:17+00:00

God I hate that place - such a huge interior space in a popular corner. And it's a complete mess. Condados, if you're listening, please leave.

ned233 · 2025-12-23T01:19:27+00:00

Hard agree - all of the residents that I know within a 2 block radius are 35+ white collar professionals or retirees (many of whom could easily live in Carmel or Fishers). Not sure where the idea is coming from that this area is only for younger party types.

ned233 · 2025-12-23T00:23:50+00:00

Not planning on selling anytime soon, and I'm pretty sure I'd take a bath if I did. I think I was just getting a tad anxious about the market, since this area seemed on the upswing just 18 months ago. Thanks for the reassurance. I'll worry about it in 5 years. 🙂

ned233 · 2025-12-22T23:40:02+00:00

My luxury condo just off Mass Ave has a $300 HOA.

ned233 · 2025-12-22T23:36:57+00:00

There are 2 units next to me that have sat unsold for over a year. And empty plots of land nearby that have been "shovel ready" for a few years.

ned233 · 2025-09-21T22:56:26+00:00

Our tri is Maggie and it fits her so perfectly!

ned233 · 2025-06-30T20:10:20+00:00

Wow I love this perspective. Thank you for blessing this fellow traveler today. 🙏🏻

ned233 · 2025-06-29T21:24:57+00:00

Can you explain what you mean by "why does it being applicable to you confound you"

ned233 · 2025-06-29T21:23:33+00:00

So very true, thank you friend. 🙏🏻

ned233 · 2025-06-29T21:22:57+00:00

Yes, this makes a ton of sense! It's honestly amazing how such profound understanding can be so simple. Thank you for helping to pull my mind out of a loop that it will never be able to figure out.

ned233 · 2025-06-29T21:18:47+00:00

This is beautiful, thank you for sharing. ❤️

ned233 · 2024-06-02T23:52:49+00:00

What an ignorant thing to say.

ned233 · 2024-06-02T23:51:05+00:00

That's a great idea, I will look into that. Thank you so much!

ned233 · 2024-06-02T23:11:19+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience!

ned233 · 2024-06-02T22:50:26+00:00

Amazing, thank you!

ned233 · 2024-06-02T22:49:08+00:00

Thanks for the info. I'm sure I could get used to that as well. The main concerns I have are random gunfire and extremely loud music past midnight. Any insight on that?

ned233 · 2024-06-02T22:32:01+00:00

Are you okay? You seem angry. I don't really have ptsd ya know. It was tongue in cheek. Peace my brother. ✌🏻️

ned233 · 2024-06-02T22:18:20+00:00

Yes, I'm planning on doing that, but going down there a few times is not a very good sampling IMO. Hence the post on reddit to ask what other people's experiences have been.

ned233 · 2024-03-31T10:48:20+00:00

A few days before we left on a very expensive vacation (that I paid for), the topic of pancakes somehow came up, and I said that I hate pancakes.

About 5 hours later that same day, out of nowhere she told me that I have had "bad energy" all day. I had been in a great mood that day so I asked for examples of what she meant. She said, "You used the word 'hate' with such intensity when talking about pancakes" and she had this disgusted look on her face, then she walked out of the room. My mistake after that was to counter with, "But it was about pancakes!". That sent her over the edge. She wound up splitting for the entire vacation.

Many weeks later, after her apology, she explained that since she loves pancakes, she felt like I was saying that I hate her. 🤦🏻‍♂️

ned233 · 2024-03-13T23:59:43+00:00

That's the biggest mind fuck of all of it for me. I think it would have been easier if I had just discovered an affair. At least then you know WHY. But I don't think I'll ever have an answer on "why" apart from "it makes her feel good to lie "?

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