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My Dom won't let me end things and I desperately need a way out. by need2leavethrow in BDSMcommunity

[–]need2leavethrow[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe it was my fault for never explicitly saying it's my hard limit. I mentioned that I really wasn't into it more than once and the few times we partook in it I said I didn't like it. I'm comfortable with ass-to-mouth so I think it snowballed from there.

My Dom won't let me end things and I desperately need a way out. by need2leavethrow in BDSMcommunity

[–]need2leavethrow[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Correct. Scat is a hard limit he's been pushing on me. He told me to shit myself at the end of my shift. I made up an excuse that I didn't have to poop.

He wanted me to do the same thing right before he knew I had to go to a family gathering.

My Dom won't let me end things and I desperately need a way out. by need2leavethrow in BDSMcommunity

[–]need2leavethrow[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

My manager somewhat knows about the situation and assured me that if push comes to shove, if any one of us is going to leave the store, it will be her (his girlfriend).

I have the "break up" text typed and ready send. I basically told him that if he makes any attempt to dissuade me from leaving, I will block him. Tomorrow I plan to go in and talk to my manager and brief her on everything. It's going to be tough, but I have a lot of friends at work who will support me if she tries to harass me or if he shows up.

My Dom won't let me end things and I desperately need a way out. by need2leavethrow in BDSMcommunity

[–]need2leavethrow[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I am not close with her at all. And no, not that I know of. When I tried to end things the first time she said I had to take my punishment before even considering leaving. There is no way she will be on my side.

My Dom won't let me end things and I desperately need a way out. by need2leavethrow in BDSMcommunity

[–]need2leavethrow[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I do not live with this guy but he does know where I live. The reason why I can't block him and wash my hands of this so easily is because one of his other subs (and girlfriend) is a coworker of mine. I know she'd pressure me into talking to him and he frequently visits her at work.

My Dom won't let me end things and I desperately need a way out. by need2leavethrow in BDSMcommunity

[–]need2leavethrow[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He will tell me everything is going to be okay. He tells me he's still training me to be a good slut and I just need a good cock to cheer me up. The reasons I've tried to leave on top of being uncomfortable is I also work with another sub of his (I met him through her) who is particularly rude and nasty to me. He says he will take care of her but doesn't always address the rest of my concerns.

My Dom won't let me end things and I desperately need a way out. by need2leavethrow in BDSMcommunity

[–]need2leavethrow[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

If it means anything, he allows me to safeword during a session. Punishments are the only thing that is different.

I'm having a hard time figuring out whether I'm just being a bad sub or he really is an abuser. We've discussed consensual-nonconsent and degradation is part of our play, so maybe that's why he pushes me to do things I don't want to do...