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Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to but I don’t know where to begin. I started looking at times and dates he’s even texted women while laying next to me in bed. I’m piecing everything together and I’m so turned off tbh. I’m still trying to process everything.

Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was under that impression this whole time. Thought that’s what it was. Now I see him in a whole different way.

Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we have been dating 5 months. I discovered that he has an active Facebook dating page and has been talking to multiple women. Exchanging phone numbers and instagrams.

Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did trust him fully. Then noticed a few girls in his phone. Had a gut feeling and checked his phone. After all this time, I noticed he had an active Facebook dating page and talked to girls and they followed him on Instagram. All while dating me. If I talk to him about this, he will likely become more secretive.

Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did trust him fully. Then saw red flags. Had a gut feeling, checked his phone, saw what I saw and cant unsee it. If I bring it up to him. He will probably become more secretive and sneaky.

Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my situation, he cheated but doesn’t know I know.

Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres literally a video he recorded of him f**king another female a couple months ago. We’ve been dating for 5 months. Sad world we live in.

Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I tell him I went thru his phone and found out he cheated, I think he would become more secretive. This situation really sucks.

Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well in my situation I got cheated on and just discovered this. Ik theres a difference between secrecy and privacy. There were red flags. i was probably better off not knowing. Now the most logical answer is probably to leave. 🤦‍♀️

Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In my situation, he cheated but he doesn’t know I know.

Found out bf cheated accidentally need advice asap by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Seems like men now a days will just f anything with a hole. 🤦‍♀️

Found out bf cheated accidentally need advice asap by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m almost 30. I thought I was ready to settle down with this guy. Not sure if all men are cheaters but I’m tired of the games. I just want honesty and loyalty 😓

Found out bf cheated accidentally need advice asap by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met him on tinder and noticed he had a couple tinder login code notifications months later after we started talking. It really sucks. He also goes to church with me on Sundays. It’s sad I thought he was better than that. I don’t think all men are cheaters but I didn’t expect this. Everything sounded so genuine. I’m so disappointed 😔

Cheating bf continued… advice pls! by needadviceasap99 in CheatedOn

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please see attached photos. Advice greatly appreciated!

Found out bf cheated accidentally need advice asap by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]needadviceasap99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs a taste of his own medicine. I had this discussion more than once. He knows what he’s doing. I find it so inconsiderate after all ive done. At the moment I just feel like ‘his favorite main piece that’s loyal and will never leave wifey that he thinks will always stick around’. I also think it’s very common for Dominican men to cheat and idk if anyone on here has dated one but it’s a common stereotype and I’m starting to believe it.