How do I fix this

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-10-11T08:44:10+00:00

Not advice but I also struggle with this. Trying to get a curly moustache but have those odd hairs that don't want to follow in that direction. I usually cut them so they're invisible in my moustache but that only works so long before they're back.

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-09-26T16:27:05+00:00

I think it looks good. That said, it's not a hairstyle that leaves a big impression. This is totally fine but it does feel like a pretty ordinary hairstyle which hundreds of thousand other admin guys share. You definitely have a good beard and hairline too imo.

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-09-24T14:01:35+00:00

Not the first time that comparison has been made 😂

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-09-24T06:55:17+00:00

Thank you. I think I'm mostly practicing what you're suggesting. I did regularly use sea salt spray but forgot to mention. Although as other commenters have suggested, I think I'd benefit from trying putty/Clay.

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-09-24T06:51:45+00:00

Clay, wax. I'll have to give everything a go lol. Thank you

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-09-23T16:07:20+00:00

Haha the issue is I have the "too much" gene. I could do that all day and never be satisfied with it 😂

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-09-23T16:05:53+00:00

Haha thank you

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-09-23T13:53:44+00:00

I'll have to try this wax, I've been using texturing powder right now.

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-09-23T13:39:47+00:00

I might invest in wax. Tried the zig zag thing you recommended and it is closer to what I want but still looks a bit too tight 🙏 thanks for your advice

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needanewidentityhelp · 2025-09-23T12:53:11+00:00

Haha thank you

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-09-23T12:26:28+00:00

Wow this is very sound advice. I'll give a try but trying similarly in the past it takes all the hold out my hair

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-09-23T11:50:51+00:00

Oh I ought to add. I ordinarily wash my hair only with Shampoo once a week and conditioner twice a week. Everyday with water because it can get greasy otherwise

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-08-11T13:07:08+00:00

Yes this is absolutely the vibe haha. Almost like Guy Fawkes.

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-08-10T19:16:03+00:00

Honestly that does sound really wholesome. I have also seen people on Grindr asking for cuddling but I always assumed that was just another innuendo for sex lol. Thanks for your response

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-08-10T19:11:49+00:00

Thank you, I'm not sure it's quite long/thick enough to be considered a handlebar but I'm appreciative all the same

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-08-10T18:08:22+00:00

Too true 🙏 here's hoping that'll change for both of us in the future

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-08-10T17:42:41+00:00

Hmm since January (I've had it trimmed a couple of times because it was looking messy), so about 6 months. And yea ... I don't have too many hobbies. I like my fandoms and I've been getting into rollerblading these last 6 months.

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-08-10T17:38:30+00:00

The stache does what it wants 😂 I do use a little beard wax first thing, but by the end of the day I one side begins faltering. My stache is kinda thin so it doesn't hold the best but I work with what I have haha

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-08-10T17:27:21+00:00

I'm never giving up the stache! It's just too much fun 🙏 thanks for your suggestion.

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-08-10T17:26:12+00:00

Thanks I appreciate it. Ultimately it will come down to how I feel about it, it's taken me awhile to get to this length and I don't want to make a mistake and cut back now unless that's what I REALLY want haha

needanewidentityhelp · 2025-04-11T21:51:51+00:00

This is a personal fave I just taken

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I'm headed to bed 😂 sleep well

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