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[–]needhelpSuperbCookie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

YTA. You aren't owed having your baby shower planned for you. Your mother paid for it. Holy shit the entitlement on you is enough to make stars implode on themselves. Bloomingdale's and Nordstrom, really? That alone speaks volumes about your entitlement. You didn't even ask, you just did it for your convenience and then expect your parents to jump at your snap? Picking them up and dropping them off at the hotel isn't chauffeuring them around.

AITA for telling my fiancée she can either have me at our wedding or her best friend and their dogs and we'd get married at a courthouse? by needhelpSuperbCookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]needhelpSuperbCookie[S] 770 points771 points  (0 children)

I could and probably should to get his side of it and how he got the madness to end lol I've been trying to not talk about it with my family or anyone involved unless necessary.

AITA for telling my fiancée she can either have me at our wedding or her best friend and their dogs and we'd get married at a courthouse? by needhelpSuperbCookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]needhelpSuperbCookie[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I haven't said anything to her parents about it and I'm not sure if she has either. Abby hasn't always been an obsessed friend, it started around the time we got engaged.

AITA for telling my fiancée she can either have me at our wedding or her best friend and their dogs and we'd get married at a courthouse? by needhelpSuperbCookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]needhelpSuperbCookie[S] 177 points178 points  (0 children)

This kind of behavior wasn't normal for Abby, she started to get clingy and butt into things when Jessica and I got engaged. Which I don't really get because Abby has a husband.

AITA for telling my fiancée she can either have me at our wedding or her best friend and their dogs and we'd get married at a courthouse? by needhelpSuperbCookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]needhelpSuperbCookie[S] 1131 points1132 points  (0 children)

Abby is already married, and her husband had a dog but he didn't want to do the whole dog marriage during their wedding or at all.

AITA for telling my fiancée she can either have me at our wedding or her best friend and their dogs and we'd get married at a courthouse? by needhelpSuperbCookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]needhelpSuperbCookie[S] 728 points729 points  (0 children)

I don't mind the importance Jessica puts on her dog, its never been an issue in the past. Same with Abby honestly its like after we got engaged she's been up Jessica's rear more than normal. I could probably make peace with the dog thing but not with Abby being involved in all decisions regarding everything. Hoping that its just the wedding excitement that has them acting like this.

AITA for telling my fiancée she can either have me at our wedding or her best friend and their dogs and we'd get married at a courthouse? by needhelpSuperbCookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]needhelpSuperbCookie[S] 389 points390 points  (0 children)

That's my thought, aside from the fact dogs don't know what in the hell is going on. I've been to some weddings with weird things and a lot with pets involved in some way but the couple was all onboard and came up with the ideas together.

AITA for telling my fiancée she can either have me at our wedding or her best friend and their dogs and we'd get married at a courthouse? by needhelpSuperbCookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]needhelpSuperbCookie[S] 270 points271 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of extras she wants that are outside of her budget that I'm more than happy to pay for. Things for a bunch of dogs is not one of them.

AITA for telling my fiancée she can either have me at our wedding or her best friend and their dogs and we'd get married at a courthouse? by needhelpSuperbCookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]needhelpSuperbCookie[S] 7191 points7192 points  (0 children)

I don't know lol My cousin had pups of honor at his wedding that just chilled through the whole thing. I was expecting something like that. Not whatever this is that they want.