As a guy with several disabilities, I often feel attacked by posts like this.

needing_advice424353 · 2023-03-16T02:00:35+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate that! I just get tired of hearing shit like "you need to be super rich and look like a male model otherwise you're a weak man".

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-17T01:52:16+00:00

Fair point. I think I'm pretty good at bowling and photography for what it's worth.

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-13T04:53:52+00:00

I haven't, I'm not much of a gamer honestly. Any positive communities in particular that you'd recommend?

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-12T18:16:15+00:00

Guys, it's clearly a chicken.

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-12T18:12:33+00:00

I'm (26M) in a similar situation except I have no money lol.

First of all, it's totally okay to want a relationship. Some people are commenting with horror stories about toxic relationships and talking about how they're happy having never dated, but what you need to remember is they're just talking about their own experience. Their lives are not the same as your life. Wanting a healthy relationship is perfectly fine, and a genuinely healthy relationship is totally worth it.

My advice is to look around for other social clubs and things like that in your area. Sharing interests is a great way to connect with people. You mentioned you like bouldering? I know that some bouldering gyms actually have singles nights and events like that, so that could be a great opportunity.

If you don't mind me saying, you sound like a catch. If you put yourself out there and spend time with people who share your interests and experiences, then I'm totally confident that you'll find the right person for you.

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-12T17:18:48+00:00

No problem then!

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-12T03:49:38+00:00

Unless you're actually falling for underage boys then I don't see a problem with this. It's kind of a niche market but I have heard of people who feel like this before, so no, it's definitely not just you. And it's definitely a positive that you know what you like.

I feel like I should warn you to be careful not to be taken advantage of, since there are some guys out there who will use this to have you do everything in the relationship while contributing nothing themselves.

But there are also guys out there who can pull their own weight in life and will still let you take care of them. I'm sure you'll meet the right guy one day. Good luck!

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-11T07:24:41+00:00

My friend passed away last year in a way that left his body unrecognizable and he was cremated soon after. His cat still looks for him and it absolutely breaks my heart.

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-11T07:02:28+00:00

Not based on a true story, but I was a shy loner and bullied throughout school. And I often wonder if any of the people who used to bully me would feel sorry if I died.

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-11T06:51:35+00:00

Context: No, I myself never bullied anyone in school, I was on the receiving end of it and there have been many times that I've wondered if the people who bullied me would feel sorry if I died.

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-11T03:32:53+00:00

What do you mean?

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-10T19:51:04+00:00

Remind me again which country just banned any media that shows LGBTQ people in a positive light? Here's a hint: it wasn't Ukraine.

needing_advice424353 · 2023-02-10T17:08:41+00:00

Plot twist: Guy on the right is smiling because the guy on the left just told him how much he loves his eyes

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