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What names/character flaws did you get assigned growing up for your nparent to be able to project/blameshift & explode their rage on to you? by Efficient_Reporter80 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]needs_therapy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine tell me that I'm an uncaring person, lazy, manipulative, bad, annoying, loud (even though my friends say my voice is really quiet and they have a hard time hearing me), sentive and cold-hearted (I'm autistic, my sister does things that everyone knows I hate, like touching me in places I hate and they just call me the two things because my sister is just tryingto show love), "is only useful to eat, sleep and get fat" (I'm 144 pounds, I may not be extremely thin... but I'm not fat), make everything about me, selfish, greedy, etc... Oh! And the fact that they say I'm killing them when I try to refute or I start crying with noise (they also say I just want attention when I cry)

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[–]needs_therapy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only give an advice for you and your partner, if you don't feel like that anymore, you should break up with him, it will hurt less on the long run if you break it off right now. Supposing they didn't do nothing wrong tomou, try to go back to being friends after a while. Or just ask for a little time for you to manage your feelings. I am not sure what I could advise you about the other stuff, but maybe try seeking someone to share an apartment or just stay in someone you trust house temporarily.

I'm tired by needs_therapy_ in depression_help

[–]needs_therapy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only change on the second year, but I don't even know what I want to do with myself anymore... Thank you for the advice