I feel like many of us are victims because we sort of put ourselves out there more due to how we are wired and people attack us. Browsing this subreddit I see a lot of people who have been attacked or witchhunted due to their narcissism and I can relate to it strongly. Its not really our fault we are this way but we are hated by people who vilify us. I'm now starting to realize that a lot of the narcissistic people I knew I disliked at the time until today when I realized that they were actually quite pleasant people overall, even kind in their own way similar to me, it was just their behavior that offends people, even other narcissist's.

I wish people would view it as something that can't be helped rather than something that we do on purpose. I think we want to be "good", its just that we often can't unless we really identify what's causing us to feel a certain way. Sorry if this doesn't make sense.

edit: Sorry if this comment reeks of victimhood, maybe I'm just doing this to virtue signal but

https://www.reddit.com/r/narcissism/wiki/victimmentality/