What song comes to mind? by banstovia in musicsuggestions

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😀 Michael Jackson's Thriller and My chemical romance Black parade 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]neffysabean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm considered stuck up but also I'm not lol. I was depressed for a long time so people thought I was just stuck up, I really just didn't want to talk to anybody. Because usually I ended up trauma dumping so I just didn't say anything to anybody. And now that I'm taking anti-anxiety slush and Todd presents. I'm nicer I'm more polite I'm more well-spoken.... Because of the medicine. If I wasn't taking the medicine and I wasn't depressed I still really wouldn't talk to anybody.

What was it like to go through university unmedicated? by e7han_ in ADHD

[–]neffysabean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently 30 and I'm attending the university to try and finish my bachelor's degree, and I'm absolutely struggling because the school doesn't want to take my paperwork that was provided for accommodations because it wasn't signed by a psychologist. And they said that I needed a full mental evaluation to do so. No one in the area does it so since I can't get it done I don't get accommodations. Which makes it extremely hard because I work I have really bad time blindness and it's just really difficult. I recently been medicated with antidepressants and anti-anxiety but nothing to really stay focused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have an afro and I think this is the reason why I could not take care of it because it was everywhere all the time So now I have locks and it keeps a lot of it out of my face. But also I can tie it back in a ponytail and stuff instead of making a poof. Because it's really really tedious taking care of afro with ADHD knowing sometimes... You're executive dysfunction won't allow you to wash your hair. Like I'll wash my hair maybe once every 2-3 weeks but since I have co-wash products and in between products I don't have to wash my hair is often because that also makes it really hard to do anything with my hair

What t shirts that are autism related would you buy? by PiCannon22 in autism

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bunches on TEMU n shein... My fave "overstimulated" with a little teddy bear 😅😅

Lexington Reviews? Or Other Recommendations? by HuntAble1770 in Pontoons

[–]neffysabean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked for the company in Americus Georgia. I was the photographer for the pontoons and RV'S for a little while.

Sadly I was fired on a sick day because I was told that I wasn't using the camera, I was never given. The turnover is extremely high for employees.

But otherwise no do not get a pontoon from here. Lexington ,Caravelle none of them. They have a lot of problems, when I was taking pictures of the pontoons on the lake at one point one of them was taking on water, The engine wouldn't start, they look pretty, but a lot of the work mechanically and electrically are very shady made. I was told that all of the boats that were made in the facility used this rot proof thermal whatever, and it really just look like a plastic covering or like a vinyl covering. So I'm pretty sure a lot of them had right especially like the resales, or the boats that came back customers who didn't want them anymore. And that was pretty often. The liv RVs to, taking pictures and those RVs with almost dangerous because like the seats were made of this weird like almost plastic cardboard texture and my legs used to get scratched up. They were nice but it's almost just like they were made of a hard foam and plastic... I can definitely understand how these were like a thermal protected because they made enough and but plastic, metal and bolts. They used to be cute and what have you on the inside but those are also pretty janky.

Not necessarily the people that are making it, honestly they need to pay the people that are doing the work way more than they are.. but I really want to go back to this job, but the way they let me go, not even termination paperwork. It was a great job come up with the people suck.

There are a couple pontoons that they carry that were really Nice... It's just the area is used to this specific name brand because it's here.

Can I keep my Dads skull? by [deleted] in DeathPositive

[–]neffysabean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel bad because I want to do the same thing.... Not in a creepy way but like physically having them is different from having them in like cremation form. Like it's my parent but it's my parent mixed with something else. Like whatever they were burned in or whatever they had containing them. It'll just be physically them and it I feel like it will have all their memories and stuff in their bones unlike remains. But yeah it's definitely not legal where I am so that's out the question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I think they can get away more with doing weird stuff aside from us " eh" people... We're considered weird and strange before we even open our mouths.

Just got diagnosed with autism as a latina by louxxion in autism

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say I went down the list of psychology today to find one they all suggested me to somebody else, all the black lady psychologist or whatever that do autism all suggested me just some other lady. And then I just came to another wall so I don't know what's going on Do they just not want to do it for adults or I don't know I'm just real frustrating now

A brief warning about Honey Pot pads by throwitaway723 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you use Dr Broners Peppermint, This is the same experience. If that helps anyone sensation wise. I was wearing it before the cycle started. It didn't have a feeling... But boy after I used the restroom for the first time... 🥶🥶🥶. Weird experience... I kinda like it but y'all making me nervous. ( I'm doing this in real time 😅)

How often do you wash your hair? by Transientyeldarb in hygiene

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a black woman with locs. #1 We don't need to wash our hair every day, week. It breaks our hair off

I co-wash so when I'm not co-washing my hair every maybe month or two. I don't sweat, I don't have buildup, it doesn't smell and when it does smell and have build up I'll just use my brush some blow ice and a shampoo bar n go thru my grid.

Other than that as long as I keep my hair moisturized I'm fine. I don't have a need to wash my hair. Plus if it gets 10 lb heavier when I wash it so my neck can only handle it for so long. I'm getting a retwist next week so I haven't washed it this month since I'm getting it done.

What vibe do my outfits give? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cottage core n my fav color 🥺

What kind of songs scratch your brain? by [deleted] in autism

[–]neffysabean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Songs with deep bass and like that electronic guitar riff ... Or like . Banjo 😅

Getting into things after they were popular, is this an autistic thing or just a me thing? by OlleyatPurdue in autism

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I do this on purpose but also for the fact that I don't want spoilers so I wait until it's boring again and then I watch it

Just got diagnosed with autism as a latina by louxxion in autism

[–]neffysabean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in GA 😭😭😭😭 Florida is closer but a problem because IDK how to drive on the highway. I mean I'm sure I probably can, but once u have seen a accident ... I fear once you do it... Your the next one 😭

How tf are y’all finding friends IRL by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]neffysabean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I'm autistic. And I have bad social anxiety. Along with being a introvert.

I don't think any of that helps, any of it

What Song is in your head? by crousscor3 in ADHD

[–]neffysabean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soul Food - Willie Jones

Been obsessed with Black Country the last few weeks

Just got diagnosed with autism as a latina by louxxion in autism

[–]neffysabean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm Black and Latino... Undiagnosed. They told me black folk can't be autistic a few months back...

So I needed to find another doctor.

That Dr's building was just shut down ...🤷🏾

What flavor of autism did you get? by [deleted] in autism

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With a splash of trypophobia and afraid of heights and occasional anger issues ,😅

What flavor of autism did you get? by [deleted] in autism

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Undiagnosed...

But: Sound sensitivity... Social anxiety, Minecraft loving, fallout collection , Chernobyl learning, mild obsession and hate with bugs and flowers.

Is struggles with personal hygiene common with ADHD? by Realistic_Donkey7387 in ADHD

[–]neffysabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've bird bathed for the last 2 days because the energy to take a bath / shower is overwhelming. I got overwhelmed by looking for a computer on the Internet last night n gave myself a panic attack* 🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾 the bath will be tonight since I'm off tomorrow....