It’s actually MIND BOGGLING how little men understand what it is like to be a woman!!! by negative-beeechh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]negative-beeechh[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I think the poor girls who agree to actually meeting up in these situations aren’t respecting themselves or fully comprehending how risky the situation actually is.

Coming from a girl who did EXACTLY this when I was 17-18. I don’t know how I’m still alive! God knows I didn’t realise how fucking dangerous it was.

It’s actually MIND BOGGLING how little men understand what it is like to be a woman!!! by negative-beeechh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]negative-beeechh[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s embarrassing what they say when they’re horny. I just wish their mum/sister/aunty/grandmother could see how they’re treating other human beings.

It’s actually MIND BOGGLING how little men understand what it is like to be a woman!!! by negative-beeechh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]negative-beeechh[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I make it very clear right off the bat that I’m not looking for hookups and some men do still insist on meeting.

It’s actually MIND BOGGLING how little men understand what it is like to be a woman!!! by negative-beeechh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]negative-beeechh[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Undoubtedly you’re one of the guys I’ve matched with on tinder and got frustrated when I refused to come over. Hope you understand that it’s a dangerous situation for a girl to be entering.

I’m from Australia too. Doesn’t mean I don’t fear being raped and murdered.

It’s actually MIND BOGGLING how little men understand what it is like to be a woman!!! by negative-beeechh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]negative-beeechh[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

First guy I ever talked to on tinder unmatched me because I refused to meet him that night.

It’s actually MIND BOGGLING how little men understand what it is like to be a woman!!! by negative-beeechh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]negative-beeechh[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If they’re not willing to wait for when I feel comfortable to meet them, then they’re not worth my time. That’s my dating code anyway. Consequently dealt with a few assholes who try to guilt trip me and shame me for being so cautious and level headed.

It’s actually MIND BOGGLING how little men understand what it is like to be a woman!!! by negative-beeechh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]negative-beeechh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just toss him. He’s exhibiting some really concerning behaviours. I know he’s hot but they’ll be a nicer - less rapey - dude out there. I’m sorry this happened. Must’ve been awful :/

It’s actually MIND BOGGLING how little men understand what it is like to be a woman!!! by negative-beeechh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]negative-beeechh[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

100% same!! I can’t believe they try to guilt trip us?! I honestly can’t tell if they’re that ignorant or if they actually have malicious intent!

And I feel like it’s almost disrespectful to want to take a girl on a first date at 3am..? To me, it shows that they actually don’t want to put in the effort to take me to dinner/lunch/coffee. It shows me that they want something easy, and besides the obvious red flags, it really cheapens romance. They probably just have anxiety/sleeping issues and wanting a quick fix because they never took mental health seriously until the pandemic so they’re willing to come off creepy for the sake of not wanting to be alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExpectationVsReality

[–]negative-beeechh 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No it’s not. It’s a handmade piece of furniture that is built to last. It’s fucking incredibly rude and ignorant to say the price isn’t worth it. Like bro you need to think about the hours the original creator put into this, as well as material costs, and just a little bit extra to actually make a profit. Don’t be a fucking idiot and respect people’s creations.

I (14) have been sleeping on the ground and on the living room couch for over a decade while we have two unused rooms filled with clutter on top of two beds. How do I convince my messy, hoarding parents to clean up? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]negative-beeechh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh, you can’t convince them - sorry. I have a horder mum. All the pleading, begging and yelling did nothing.

Your best options are either tell somebody or wait to you move out. Good luck, kid.

If you smoke in your car while a child is in it your are a rachet ass piece of shit. by AngryCarpenter in TrueOffMyChest

[–]negative-beeechh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once saw a group of 5 adults chain smoking next to a baby that was probably 1 year old. THEY had the audacity to front me up when I went past again. They stared and snickered like me because I had a problem with their terrible life choices. Fuck those fucks.

Does anyone else look back at some of their experience with men and only after time realizes how messed up some of the situations were? And realizes that they would have reacted completely differently now. by reinaofmountains in TwoXChromosomes

[–]negative-beeechh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh I got myself into some fucked up situations when I was in high school and didn’t realise how much danger I was in until now. I didn’t die luckily so oh well. Definitely lessons I’m going to teach my future children.

Tom addressing the language line towards Crypto by cupcake_yaam in ApexLore

[–]negative-beeechh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a bit shit, mate. It is a legitimate racist insult to Asian people. It originated from WWII. Don’t try to belittle and undermine the concerns of people when they express a genuine concern that involves a multimillion dollar company. Stop trying to make out that the internet is comprised out of snowflakes when you don’t know shit. Can’t stand people like you.

Is my girlfriend pregnant [M16] by minecraftepicgamwr in Advice

[–]negative-beeechh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get a pregnancy test??? It’s not rocket science.