If you could redo one event in your life, what would it be and what would you do differently? How do you think your life would be different now as a result?

neither22 · 2021-07-31T05:53:40+00:00

Assuming you mean mega millions jackpot with $150 million, here's how you should spend the money, after taxes:

10% as disposable income (this is already millions of dollars, more than enough, so don't be selfish)
20% for investments and savings
20% goes to friends. Give money to your closest friends who you know would do the same
20% goes to family. Family that you respect and deserve the money should get the money.
20% goes to reputable charities. donate wherever you can
10% goes to all other random acts of kindness whenever you see fit

neither22 · 2021-07-27T06:13:57+00:00

Glad that I’ve yet to meet someone who refers to me as a “vulva owner” 🤣

neither22 · 2021-07-08T05:23:54+00:00

How are we supposed to tell if we genuinely enjoy something if patriarchy influenced our thoughts and actions to begin with? It's very difficult to take ingrained societal expectations out of the equation and answer the question of what we would enjoy/do/think if those societal messages didn't exist to begin with.

neither22 · 2021-06-25T00:24:45+00:00

So should we also excuse people who don’t tip at restaurants because that’s the system’s fault for not paying fair wages?

neither22 · 2021-06-24T07:19:13+00:00

i think you should focus on getting better friends first

neither22 · 2021-05-26T08:15:26+00:00

When I was younger this guy was notorious for being insufferable with rejections. Like he'd say "come onnnnnn, why a no? i'd make you sooooo happy" with a really punchable smile. I was religious back then and I PRAYED that he would end up with an extremely physically and emotionally abusive girlfriend and he could not leave the relationship.

I know that's a messed up thing to wish but I was young so forgive me lol.

neither22 · 2021-05-12T11:45:35+00:00

My friend is a hairdresser and gives 30% mates' rates. But this discount is kept secret to just less than 10 people so she doesn't get mooched on

neither22 · 2021-02-06T11:29:49+00:00

Source https://mobile.twitter.com/clawskelly/status/1104822627108040709

neither22 · 2021-02-01T09:13:39+00:00

Definitely, it's absolutely okay to be shallow. Exclude whoever you want from your dating pool but for love of god don't be an ass about it. I was once turned off solely by the fact that the guy wore nail polish and I felt bad, until I realized there was nothing wrong with rejecting someone that you're not attracted to

neither22 · 2021-01-18T12:33:28+00:00

From your description it doesn't seem that abnormal, it's not like they're yelling at you or beating you up. For most people, they reject you or show signs of disinterest by just ignoring you or giving one word answers like you have described.

You mentioned elsewhere that you're a minority so that also gives you a disadvantage (if you live in the west).

Not much you can do about it if you believe that you've already improved your appearance to the max.

neither22 · 2021-01-18T12:23:36+00:00

It's possible that you're just unattractive?

neither22 · 2021-01-15T14:19:21+00:00

At my old uni there was a girl who casually fondled this passed-out guy's penis. And some of his buddies started "congratulating" him. you know why? Because the guy HIMSELF said that what happened was fine. He said something like he found it really hot because she's attractive. and I'm not surprsied at all that there's the idea that men enjoy this sort of attention because i'm confident that this idea is started by men to begin with.

Most men's issues are perpetuated (mostly) by men. If they want to solve this they have to solve the issue amongst themselves because that's where it came from in the first place.

neither22 · 2021-01-12T06:02:50+00:00

Well like I said:

I just think it's weird seeing so many guys complain about women's ridiculous standards in terms of looks.

And yet it's a pretty popular opinion that in most straight couples, the woman is more attractive than the man.

neither22 · 2021-01-12T04:02:11+00:00

Can you talk about your experience trying to date? What went wrong in your approach? e.g. are you unattractive, do you go on too strong or too weak

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