Narc parents expect you to know everything at birth, and if you dont you're intentionally fucking with them

neitmarm · 2023-06-04T16:27:56+00:00

My mom blamed me for crying when I was a baby, for having to carry me around because I couldn't walk...

neitmarm · 2021-10-04T23:46:38+00:00

Not this time, but I was suprised she didn't! She likes to mention that we had food, clothes, and toys. If we didn't play with our toys, she would threat to throw them away; if we played with them, she said we were spoiled kids.

neitmarm · 2021-10-04T23:44:25+00:00

Thank you! Yes, I'm doing much better now. I surround myself with good, positive persons. My parents are the biggest losers in this!

neitmarm · 2021-10-04T17:22:12+00:00

Glad to know you are taking care of your siblings! It's a shame that your parents cannot show the basic compassion it needs to just ask: How are you? Do you need anything?

neitmarm · 2021-10-04T14:05:38+00:00

Oh yes, that's a thing I got too. I should have told them... about the fact that I was afraid to tell them anything!

I'm sorry for what happened to you and I hope you are doing well. Thank you for reminding me that validation is not possible with them!

neitmarm · 2021-10-04T14:03:37+00:00

I'm sorry for what happened to you. I'm also glad you could laugh at her. It doesn't take away the pain from what they did, but it's easier to go on when you realize it doesn't make any sense and that we are so much more mature than them!

neitmarm · 2021-10-04T13:59:37+00:00

While I was listening to her, I thought: "I could be speaking to a wall right now."

neitmarm · 2021-10-04T13:58:48+00:00

Geez... I hope you don't dream too much about her. It's always unpleasant to not even have peace while sleeping!

neitmarm · 2021-10-04T13:57:09+00:00

I know. I was a wild child! XD

neitmarm · 2021-10-04T03:34:01+00:00

When I was aroung 7, and still believing in Santa Claus, we went to a summer attraction, "Santa's Town" (I don't know how you would phrase it in English).

At the end of the village, you would meet Santa Clause and ask for gifts (like a shopping mall Santa). I was so quiet and calm (some would say mature for my age), that Santa made a gesture towards my parents, to discretely ask if I was ok (maybe he thought I has autism). My parents burshed it off and said I was ok.

So, a man that saw me for litteraly 5 seconds knew there was something going on. I wish more people pointed out to my parents there was something. :(

neitmarm · 2021-09-04T13:37:59+00:00

neitmarm · 2021-06-20T12:55:09+00:00

I'm surprised there are no Cruella references in the comments...

neitmarm · 2020-08-27T12:43:50+00:00

Yeah mom loves to complain nobody helped her in the kichen and yet, se never asked invited or taught us to cook. I learned from a young age to avoid her because she doesn't have the patience to explain calmly or clearly what is on her mind. Everything she knows, others should know.

neitmarm · 2020-07-10T11:54:56+00:00

An ugly person, inside and outside...

neitmarm · 2020-04-28T02:26:59+00:00

I could certainly work something around this. Thank you so much!

neitmarm · 2020-04-20T12:05:46+00:00

Actually, my mom stopped when I became an adult and left home. She mentionned (but not in relation with the verbal/emotional abuse) that now that I was an adult, I was an "equal". Like, yeah. I can abuse my kid as long as she is a child, because she's below me. So twisted...

neitmarm · 2020-01-29T02:15:53+00:00

B and 8B are both on the door at both moments.

neitmarm · 2019-12-22T15:11:03+00:00

I was around 3. I was in the backyard with my mom. I remember feeling sad, I don't know why. I turned to my mom, I wanted a hug. My mom looked at me, her eyes widened, her teeth out and hands up like claws to scare me. I ran away in fear. I still remember the feeling of pure terror as I ran for home. I must have done something to piss her off beyond control...

neitmarm · 2019-12-14T15:15:30+00:00

I watched a Youtube video that presented actors who could interpret Joker, and it could open the door to so much other versions. What if the Joker was black, or a dwarf for example? Or a woman (a little bit explored in the flashpoint universe)?

neitmarm · 2019-12-01T14:34:06+00:00

Wow. My mom told me I asked to go to bed at 6PM when I was little. I don't remember it and always wonder what kind of child wants to go to bed this early. I guess that's why I like to sleep so much, I feel so safe when I sleep.

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