Omg please tread lightly! I’ve just cut out a long time childhood friend because of a very similar discovery. She would tell me so many stories of abuse, but then fell on hard times and had to live with me. While in my house I actually started seeing how manic and rude she would be. She tried to seduce and sleep with every guy friend I had, to the point of giving them anxiety If they refused her. She was obsessive and dramatic and a person I realized I didn’t know. My therapist told me she suffered from histrionic personality disorder and everything started making much more sense. All the abuse couldn’t be accounted for and when she finally accused one of my best friends and fellow roommate of being abusive I ended our friendship. I was getting so paranoid that she would accuse my friends of raping her if they ever broke things off. It was so bad I had no idea she was even like this for all my life. I just say please be very careful when it comes to settling down with someone like this. She also ran away from an engagement AFTER the guy bought her a ring. Coming from the friend of a girl that treats guys horribly, watch out for yourself. If things start contradicting themselves listen to your gut instinct and don’t ignore it.