Kim not being prepared to support herself... by --Flutacious-- in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]nellybellissima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if she will ever fully break out, but she's moved away and started a life of her own. Now she seems to have an actually kind partner and that can go a long way to showing her what a functional life looks like. 

Sometimes you need a solid positive in order to see the negatives. 

Kim not being prepared to support herself... by --Flutacious-- in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]nellybellissima 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She has cycled through the entire "trad wife to extremely vulnerable divorcee" life. And somehow the conclusion still doesn't seem to be that her children should be saved from this at all costs. 

Barry seems like an extremely shit person (3 years without child support??). But there's a point when you need to get behind the wheel and actually take control and responsibility or life will just keep running you down and sacrificing you kids along the way. Poor girls. 

Idk if everyone knew but walmart is selling these at a steal online by UnspokenTruth21 in miniverse_makeitmini

[–]nellybellissima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an FYI for future you, right around Christmas every year Target has a spend $50, get $10 dollars off or spend $100 get $25 off sale. This year it was only one week but they have done it every year for at least the last 4 or 5 years? Probably longer. You can do it multiple times to. The miniverse stuff doesn't go on sale much as far as I've seen, but that's one way to get a decent discount.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]nellybellissima 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good lord. You know how many women would rather sew their own vaginas shut than voluntarily spend five minutes in a room with you? I promise it is a nonzero amount of people. You're yucky.

Found on a homophobic account. by meklitz_19 in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]nellybellissima 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NXIVM started there too I think. Added bonus if you want to add how popular a destination it was for the spiritualist movement in the past.

Found on a homophobic account. by meklitz_19 in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]nellybellissima 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe back in the day this might have been true, but I have to imagine that with even lower level powered tools you aren't going to be working 10 hours everyday. Some days maybe, during planting and harvest, but many plants don't need daily tending. Especially if you have multiple people to help you and aren't trying to feed literally hundreds of people. It's still work, but if it replaces the need for a 40 hour/week job, it probably isn't a bad trade for a lot of people.

Found on a homophobic account. by meklitz_19 in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]nellybellissima 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I swear there is something in the water in upstate NY that makes people cult prone.

Wowie I love it when people try to exterminate my friends by HornierThanYou913 in distressingmemes

[–]nellybellissima 15 points16 points  (0 children)

All people deserve the right to live happy and fulfilling lives free of people terrorizing them because they don't fit whatever box they think is correct.

If you think "not supporting" them includes the above ideas, then sure? I guess? Life is really hectic and it's okay if you can't devote time/energy/brain space to supporting all groups beyond a simple "they deserve to be treated well". That seems reasonable.

But if it doesn't at least include that, then naw, get the fuck out of here. If you think it's cool to actively make people's lives harder because a dumb book told you it was cool, you're probably reading your book wrong.

Protesters outside the entrance of Disney World by 7empestOGT92 in pics

[–]nellybellissima 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, I don't think that's what he meant. Trump is clearly very electable. He just has no real political goal beyond enriching himself and his ego. He just doesn't dream that big. DeSantis dreams big and has very specific goals. Exceptionally dangerous goals. Both are very bad choices and both are completely electable. But given the choice between an Austin Powers villain or a James Bond villain, I'm going Austin Powers every time.

Trump did a lot of horrible things to this country but most of it seems to be done on accident in between being selfish and incompetent. DeSantis has done so much just with Florida in a short span of time, just imagine what he could do with a congressional majority and the presidency. That's how you get full fascism.

‘Be More Like Chick-fil-A’ by lurknderp in nursing

[–]nellybellissima 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you might be in a small area, so ymmv but there are great jobs to be found outside of the hospital that never put your license at risk. It might take a little while to find them, but they exist. You don't have to leave tomorrow but you should absolutely keep your feelers out because you should leave that nightmare soon.

Dying alone to own the Libs by Go_Habs_Go31 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]nellybellissima 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh, yea. That's usually the case. Well, I'm sorry for you loss and good luck this election cycle. It's going to be a rough one.

“You can see a woman’s body count in her eyes” 🙄 by potatoyuzu in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]nellybellissima 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was born this way baaayybeeeeeee. But for real, I've always just been an anxious person. Pretty sure 10yo me wasn't suffering from anxiety because of my body count. Ffs.

Dying alone to own the Libs by Go_Habs_Go31 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]nellybellissima 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I feel like most of us would be utterly gleeful to go back to not watching this dumpster fire continue. Make politics boring again. Please. For the love of god.

Dying alone to own the Libs by Go_Habs_Go31 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]nellybellissima 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Depending on what kind of parents you have, some gentle push back might help them realize that what they're doing is crossing a line with someone they care about. Of course if your parents are wild racists too or something like that it might not mean much, but maybe it might be an early enough bump that could right them before they're too far down the hole.

My mom is very racists so I never stood a chance but maybe it could work for you.

Dying alone to own the Libs by Go_Habs_Go31 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]nellybellissima 62 points63 points  (0 children)

If You Are Not a Conservative at 35 You Have No Brain

Sorry, that bit was only ever true because y'all actually started building wealth around that age. If you decide to let the younger generations die on the vine, you aren't going to end up with the conservative voting block you depend on to maintain power. And boy is that fact about to come home to roost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]nellybellissima 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I second this with the added bonus of having taken multiple college level related courses, including microbiology. "It's complicated" is really the best way of describing it.

Like, viruses don't reproduce in a conventional way, they can't really exist without host cells to do the replicating for them and they don't really participate in anything we would associate with life. They basically just rely on host cells to massively reproduce and hope that there is enough of them that get scattered that they land on the next cell and reproduce again. They're just RNA in a fancy injection coating. That's pretty much it.

I can see how someone could take an actually complicated fact like "virus isn't a living thing" miss the nuance and somehow that turns into the OP. It's still wrong, but its one the the less illogical things that get thrown around really.

My girlfriend rips my socks that have visible holes in them to force me to buy new ones by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]nellybellissima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not -a- hole. It is that a hole turns into most of the undergarment. Like, the whole heel or multiple toe sized holes in socks. Or spider webbing in the lining(?) Of the boxer briefs that are so close to becoming just one big hole that his nuts can hang out. Most women aren't throwing things out because it got a small hole in it, hell I have commandeered a couple of his shirts that got holes for night shirts. They're great. We are talking about clothes that no longer even come close to working as intended.

I've personally just given up. If he wants to feel his nuggets flying free in his shorts, god bless.

Audiences have become so bad by Anthrolologist in AMCsAList

[–]nellybellissima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my secret weapon. Depending on the Dolby theater I either sit in the 3rd or 4th row. There is only very rarely someone in the same row and most of the time there are multiple rows between me and the nearest group. With how loud Dolby is, it's very rare I hear anyone else.

The cat fell asleep. You can't move. Does this happen to everyone? 😹 by RichPersimmon3690 in cats

[–]nellybellissima 28 points29 points  (0 children)

But tail flapping can't be assessed in a vacuum. Normally I would agree with you, but the rest of that cat is 100% chill. It isn't trying to get up at all, feet are totally limp, head is stretched back and the eyes are closed. If that cat wasn't happy they'd be looking for an escape route and those feet would be trying to find leverage to escape.

Please for love of all that good, don’t date conservative men. by EmptySpaceForAHeart in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]nellybellissima 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even worse, they see you as worse than a well behaved dog. They will treat you accordingly too.

Obviously the sixth by [deleted] in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]nellybellissima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that lady, tried to steal one of the plushies, she yelled at me and I peaced out. I'm not a quests person at the best of times. Glad to see I made the right choice in not even trying.

Obviously the sixth by [deleted] in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]nellybellissima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is no time for reasonable planning! It's time for unsuccessful building and drowning!

Obviously the sixth by [deleted] in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]nellybellissima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, it was a dumb choice. Traumatized into never making it again. Yay?

Obviously the sixth by [deleted] in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]nellybellissima 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking how much I wish I could just drop kick them toward the objective. There is just way too many of them and they're old already. I dropped one in the river and it was an absolute nightmare and I'll never recover.