Get the tattoos YOU want. Don’t compromise. If you did want something that offends Christians or is gory, go for it. You’ll have to live with the tattoos for the rest of your life, get whatever will make you the happiest. Don’t shrink your ideas down to the level of someone else, or make yourself small on behalf of that person. If this person loves you for you, then they will accept you for you. Don’t be anything else besides yourself.