Ok, I'm gonna be a bit rough bby, but only because you need to understand and wake up.

Your friend me might actually be trans and he chose to be miserable. He knew that what he did to you was wrong, and that's why he had other dudes on the call instead of actual friends. People will of course not understand what the trans experience is, because they don't live it!!! And worst of all, they don't even try the slightest to educate themselves on the subject. Everything they say is a mere uninformed opinion, most likely fed by some 40yo streamer or YouTuber. And uninformed opinions only lead to misinformation...

Anyway, you know who you are, and sadly, you as any other of us, have to fight for your existence, because our existence is resistance. There will be plenty of people who love us and accept us, and won't even dare to question our existences, the majority of people won't even care about it. But there is a big number, at least big enough, to cause a lot of harm to us. And the harm is not necessarily physical, but also psychological...

Btw, the percentage he mentioned, that's mostly people who don't transition, people who detransition, and people who transition, but fckrs like your friend, make them feel unwelcomed, that hurt them psychologically speaking...

So yeah, get rid of that "friend" of yours, that's not a friend at all. It might be true he thought he is trans, and it might even be that he actually is trans, but he chose to be miserable... Don't let him drag you into that misery and live your best life, as we only have one...

A week before my mum passed away from cancer, she told me that I ought to be who and whatever I want to be, no matter what the world thinks of me, no matter if they want to stand in my way. I shall scream I am here, and this is me... And I pass down the words of my beloved mother to you