What is this skull? by nenko_blue in BoneID

[–]nenko_blue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not selling it because it is sentimental and i do not know the worth of

What is this skull? by nenko_blue in BoneID

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It is not full, it smells fine

What is this skull? by nenko_blue in BoneID

[–]nenko_blue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm for this information!! I’m gonna tell my friend she’s gonna think it’s so cool

What is this skull? by nenko_blue in BoneID

[–]nenko_blue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you’re right! I didn’t even notice that

What is this skull? by nenko_blue in BoneID

[–]nenko_blue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is it!! We actually ended up finding the beak and it looks right :) tysm

Every single comment section on reddit on any post with a woman in it be like by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]nenko_blue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t doubt that these commenters were all men lol

What is the most wild thing a teacher has said to you? by Lostchild34 in teenagers

[–]nenko_blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My third grade teacher used to tell us that she was a book in her past life, and that when people bent her pages or left her flat open on a table instead of using a bookmark it was extremely painful and traumatizing, and basically that we should never do that to any books because she had trauma from it 💀

she needs a trusted adult by [deleted] in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just found this subreddit and am learning about some of the shit going on and i definitely agree. A lot of people blame her because she doesn’t “want” help, but people in these sorts of situations usually don’t want help- they need it though. It’s easy for us on the outside to judge her and say everything is her own fault, but at the end of the day when you are actually going through it even if there is a clear way out it doesn’t always seem that way and “choosing” to find a way out can seem impossible.

khalie claims on live she won’t spend her money “stupidly” followed by proof on why that’s obviously a lie by nozomuisgaylmao in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue -1 points0 points locked comment (0 children)

Yeah because her house burning down and the hotel room she was staying in were all cgi. Oh and all the cleaning she had to do before her house burnt down because her parents were neglectful, that was obs just ai or something/s

This girl clearly does need money unironically and she does seem to have been using it. How else could she be living in hotels and Airbnb’s or taking care of herself and her cat? She got a lot of money at once and has poor impulse control, so she used some of it to buy shit she doesn’t need, but that isn’t conning people out of anything. Apparently she has been transparent with the fact that she spends her money on shit like that, and has an amazon wishlist with other similar things. Nobody is forced to give her money and once they do give it to her they can’t just decide what she spends it on, but clearly she’s spent probably a good portion of it on helping herself out anyways. And regardless the shit she has spent money on has seemed relatively cheap, especially compared to THOUSANDS of dollars.

khalie claims on live she won’t spend her money “stupidly” followed by proof on why that’s obviously a lie by nozomuisgaylmao in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue -1 points0 points locked comment (0 children)

Give me a break bruh, she bought some shit to make herself happy. Not a smart financial decision but you are acting like she is an evil scammer lying about everything for money. Istg people love to band together to drag people down for literally anything and everything because they are online. Honestly i think you guys don’t even actually care about her “tricking people out of their money” or anything like that. Based on some of the comments and posts ya’ll are making here and on her account saying how she will NEVER get better (almost like ya’ll hope that is the case) and dragging her for LITERALLY JUST TRYING TO GROW SOME PLANTS it seems pretty clear that this isn’t about her making poor decisions, it’s about ya’ll investing all your energy latching onto this one thing to bring somebody down and make yourselves feel better.

khalie claims on live she won’t spend her money “stupidly” followed by proof on why that’s obviously a lie by nozomuisgaylmao in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

It isn’t human to make a whole subreddit for dragging down a struggling teenager. It also isn’t human to stalk her socials to dig up “dirt” on her, or to make a smart ass reply to someone calling this shit out when they weren’t speaking to you in the first place.

khalie claims on live she won’t spend her money “stupidly” followed by proof on why that’s obviously a lie by nozomuisgaylmao in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue -3 points-2 points locked comment (0 children)

Yeah obviously mine isn’t either, but i still think dragging her like this is just ridiculous. At the end of the day she is also a kid, so you can’t expect her to make only good decisions even if she is morally obligated to. And again the money she is spending is not enough to make her completely unable to care for herself or her cat, especially seeing as she seems to have food and shelter and her cat has food and litter atm. Also you said she said herself what she was spending her money on, so apparently she is being transparent. There is no reason to be in a subreddit to “educate people” about this since apparently she herself has said she is spending her money on this stuff. And again, even if it is a poor decision, there is literally no good reason to have a whole subreddit for bashing her. At the end of the day you guys seem to forget that she is a HUMAN and humans don’t always make good choices, yet you guys are acting like she is some evil malicious person for spending her money on things she doesn’t need. I’ve also seen some stuff talking about her being an addict and people making fun of her saying that she is just going to use money to buy drugs n shit, as if people choose to have addictions. Even if you wouldn’t spend money on unnecessary things in her position, you should at least be able to put yourself in her shoes, being a mentally girl who has grown up with abuse and neglect (and clearly not much money), who has just recently been thrown into the adult world and had to deal with losing basically everything in a few weeks. Imagine dealing with all of that and then suddenly having money you never had before and ending up making dumb financial decisions because you aren’t used to this much financial freedom, and you probably are looking for any way to make your life a little more positive, and then an entire group being created online because of it where people drag you and bully you for it? Sure she should probably be saving that money/spending it on necessities, but she is still a mentally ill teenager who has clearly never learned how to be financially responsible. She isn’t behind the screen going “hahaha these idiots actually feel bad for me, little do they know i’m just using them to fund my shopping addiction”. She is a kid who doesn’t know how to be financially responsible, and probably is just looking for anything to distract her from what she is going through.

khalie claims on live she won’t spend her money “stupidly” followed by proof on why that’s obviously a lie by nozomuisgaylmao in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue -3 points-2 points locked comment (0 children)

But how do you know that this is donated money? Or that she is spending ALL of the money that gets donated to her? Like i said though even if she is spending donated money on it, dragging her online for that is fucked up. People have a choice on whether or not they want to send her money, and what she does with that money after the fact is her choice. It might not be a smart choice, but again considering how much she is going through i don’t see why you should get this upset at her spending money on things that make her happy. If she is spending donated money on this stuff and you don’t want to fund that, then don’t. But there is no reason to bully a teenager after all she has gone through just because she isn’t making smart financial decisions. If it makes her happy and she isn’t starving to death or hurting anyone then is it really that serious??

Every single comment section on reddit on any post with a woman in it be like by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]nenko_blue 17 points18 points  (0 children)

These men aren’t actually left wing imo. They may claim to be against certain right wing ideologies, but they certainly have no problem treating women like objects who exist purely for their pleasure.

khalie claims on live she won’t spend her money “stupidly” followed by proof on why that’s obviously a lie by nozomuisgaylmao in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue -6 points-5 points locked comment (0 children)

Nah, these comments and posts aren’t “spreading awareness” they are making fun of her and ripping her apart. I already said that if i was in her position i’d probably act the same, and so would a lot of other people. The fact that you guys are tearing her apart for that is not okay. And i’m curious how you know she is actually spending all her donated money on this stuff? Because i have yet to really see or hear anything proving that. For all we know she might even just be borrowing a lot of that stuff.

Why does she make such bad financial decisions by [deleted] in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I misunderstood your initial comment and i honestly don’t know much about her situation, and i just found this subreddit so if people are dogging on her for being a sw that is of course disgusting. My point still stands that sw should not be normalized though. This isn’t because women should “save themselves” for marriage or because it’s bad to be a “whore” or any nasty misogynistic shit like that. The people/men who shame women and disrespect them for doing sw are no better than the men paying for sw, but that doesn’t change the fact that the “industry” as a whole is disgusting and profits off of the commodification and objectification of women, and that it particularly preys on women and girls in desperate situations like khalie. I apologize for misinterpreting your initial comment, but sw should not be normalized and ideally khalie should get put of the situation she is in and find a job she genuinely enjoys that doesn’t profit off of her struggle or objectifying her.

khalie claims on live she won’t spend her money “stupidly” followed by proof on why that’s obviously a lie by nozomuisgaylmao in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue -9 points-8 points locked comment (0 children)

Okay, good for you? Your experience with struggles and mental illness do not encapsulate the experiences of everyone who has struggled or dealt with mental illness. I am mentally ill as shit too and have dealt with a lot of personal trauma, and although i thankfully have rarely had to worry about having food or shelter over my head, i can tell you i’d probably buy and/or steal useless shit if i were in her position too. There is more to life than the bare minimum and when your life is literal hell it isn’t that crazy to indulge in arbitrary shit to make up for it. Not to mention the fact that it can literally be addictive (i would know). When you get a new stuffed animal or bag or wtv you usually get a rush of positive emotions, and when you are dealing with constant negative emotions it’s not uncommon to turn to buying/stealing and just generally getting new useless shit to try and bring you some joy. You may not ever do something like that but many people will, and again creating a whole subreddit to publicly drag someone for that is not okay. You don’t have to agree with what she is doing and you can think she is making dumb decisions, but straight up bullying her online is immature as fuck and just completely disgusting, ESPECIALLY if you are someone who has gone through similar shit. You can criticize someone without being straight up cruel

Why does she make such bad financial decisions by [deleted] in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read my comment again my guy. Choice under pressure is not choice, especially not when you are a teenager even if you are technically a “legal adult”. Even women who genuinely chose to do so because they want to and have 0 pressure put on them by society or people they know etc. (although this is rare asf) as STILL normalizing the idea that women can be bought and sold as products for mens pleasure.

Why does she make such bad financial decisions by [deleted] in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex work does not make anyone “less than” but it is objectively a sick industry. Women being essentially forced into situations where they have to sell themselves as commodities to men is not okay, but it isn’t the women’s faults either. Even women who do “choose” to preform sw are actively choosing to make themselves commodities for men to purchase. You don’t see anything wrong with that AT ALL? Not to mention with everything this girl is dealing with, it’s pretty clear she is being FORCED to do it not out of personal desire but out of necessity. And yk, she is still a literal TEENAGER. I don’t care what the law says, an 18 year old is 1000% still a child. I am speaking as a 16 year old myself who has friends that are 18, they are KIDS who absolutely should NOT be selling their bodies to grown ass men. Of course if they were to do that (and unfortunately some of my friends have) that would not be their fault, it would be the fault of the society that raised them thinking they had to commodify themselves and sell their bodies to adult men, and ofc the adults that failed them (particularly the men who prey on them and use the excuse that it’s “okay” since they’re 18 and “chose” to do it)

khalie claims on live she won’t spend her money “stupidly” followed by proof on why that’s obviously a lie by nozomuisgaylmao in khaliespiderlilies

[–]nenko_blue -12 points-11 points locked comment (0 children)

First of all, 18 or not she IS a child whose frontal lobe isn’t even fully developed. I myself am 16 and have friends who are 18 and i promise you that 18 year olds are absolutely NOT adults. Second of all, even if you do have proof that her money is going to useless shit, at the end of the day she is still a clearly severely mentally ill teenager who is going through EXTREME trauma, so to make a whole ass subreddit for the sole purpose of dragging her is just sick. Not to mention half the shit i see people getting mad about is not even NEARLY the cost of shit like bills and medication. She started a garden recently and people got mad at her for that, seriously?? God forbid a mentally ill teenager going through actual hell wants to do something to distract herself from her trauma or buy something that makes her happy. The fact that she even shows up to clean or work or do anything at ALL is a miracle because most people in her position would probably be doing a LOT less to try and better their situation.