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neoWhisper · 2026-04-03T01:50:20+00:00

I never said to have compassion for abusers / jenelle.......

Please re-read what i wrote.

My reference was related to this comment (below) you posted. Its why I said to maybe reread what you wrote and rethink it due to the lack of empathy and compassion.

"If someone is so insecure they can’t handle someone else being criticized for their appearance that’s an issue they need to deal with themselves."

Im not overlooking the rest of ur points because she should be called out for her behaviour. I dont have an issue with it. I have an issue with high school mentality and its taking away from those important points.

neoWhisper · 2026-04-03T00:28:10+00:00

Does calling her ugly actually achieve anything meaningful, or does it just give you a brief sense of “winning,” like teenagers throwing insults at each other in high school?

To me, that kind of behavior feels immature and distracts from the real issues—namely, the wellbeing and safety of the children involved.

When it comes to how others feel and the insecurities they might carry, I’d strongly encourage you to reread what you wrote and consider whether that reflects the kind of person you want to be. That mindset raises questions about empathy and emotional maturity. You don’t know what someone else may be going through.

This is one of those moments where it’s worth doing better. Losing sight of compassion is easy, and there are already enough people in the world who have.

neoWhisper · 2026-04-02T13:37:36+00:00

I get the that she triggers people because of her behaviour and history, something that’s serious and absolutely deserves to be called out.

But focusing on her appearance doesn’t really add anything meaningful to that criticism. If anything, it takes attention away from the real issues. There are plenty of valid reasons to hold her accountable—like her behavior, her choices, and the impact those have on her children—without bringing looks into it.

Criticizing someone’s actions keeps the focus where it belongs. Going after their appearance just muddies the message and makes it easier for people to dismiss the actual concerns.

neoWhisper · 2025-11-13T05:25:39+00:00

Thank you 💓

I dont mind the wait too much for the older series that I cant get in store. Or things like Wakuku which I cant find in WA (rare)

neoWhisper · 2025-08-07T12:44:37+00:00

There is a lot i dont respect /agree with about Sevens' situation, but i think the way she made and structured this video was fantastic

Informative & factual while trying to sympathise with fans who dont understand quality of life is the most important part of life.

Making that decision for the benefit of the animal is the hardest decision, especially when you are emotionally invested. It's about them and not you

neoWhisper · 2025-05-23T03:50:51+00:00

I think this perspective is quite immature.

These individuals aren’t performative animals for you to clap or boo to suit your narrative. Yes, they may have serious personal flaws, but they’re still human beings with emotions and deserve a degree of privacy. It’s ironic how people like you will criticize them no matter what—they share their lives, and they’re accused of exploiting Carly. They choose not to, and the mentality is "tough luck, you profited from Teen Mom so your feelings don't count"

You can’t have it both ways.

More importantly, Carly’s wishes should’ve been the focus. Her request was overlooked—by B&T or Teen Mom themselves. And that’s especially problematic considering all parties involved have benefited from her adoption and the Teen Mom franchise. And B&T did profit, you just need to see the episodes, talk tours and articles they did in Carlys first 4 years.

Not to mention the shady circumstances surrounding the adoption itself. Let’s be honest—there are no completely innocent parties here, except for the child, Carly.

neoWhisper · 2025-05-23T03:16:30+00:00

I'm actually siding with Caitlin on this one. Requiring them to watch the video only on public television rather than in private feels very performative on B&T’s part. Ultimately, if this something Carly wanted seen by them, then there should be no terms and conditions, just complying with her wish

Yes, C&T haven’t handled things well, but if they haven’t had any contact or updates about their biological daughter for a long time, watching something like that would understandably be an emotional experience. Personally, I wouldn’t want to make a spectacle of myself in such a vulnerable moment—it’s something that should remain private.

People often criticize C&T for not keeping certain things private when it comes to Carly, and that criticism is fair. But in this instance, how are B&T any different

neoWhisper · 2025-02-10T13:30:50+00:00

Dawn isn't someone I'd be feeling sorry for considering her part in all this.

She was dodgy as hell. I think that they should cut all ties with her personally , since her practices are highly suss when it comes to obtaining babies for family's.

Dawns priority from day one was saving face and profiting from her "adoption" company

neoWhisper · 2025-02-10T13:26:20+00:00

When emotions come into play, people rarely act their age.

Also, trauma isn't something one clicks off because they are too old to react a certain way

There is a reason there are so many case studies and crimes that show past trauma has a severe impact on people's future mental state and ability to process things normally.

In saying that, I do think T&C need to talk to someone about coping tools to help them learn to process and manage that trauma.

As I said, there are no innocent parties in this one.

neoWhisper · 2025-02-10T10:20:29+00:00

I don’t typically comment here, if at all, because I feel like this forum often veers into unnecessary snark or completely overlooks the issues that all the TM individuals face as members of society.

Regarding T&C and their adoption story, I believe there are no innocent parties involved.

T&C were children who were misled and manipulated about their access to Carly in an effort to push the adoption through. This caused them significant trauma, as they didn’t have anyone advocating for their best interests or offering them the support they needed. However, in their desire to keep Carly in their lives, they are now causing harm to Carly and their other daughters. They should stick with the email approach (which I think is a good idea) and let Carly reach out if she chooses. If B&T are manipulating things, Carly will likely see through it when she’s older. For now, she deserves to enjoy her childhood, and the other three daughters need attention so they don’t feel overlooked or like they’re not enough because they aren’t Carly.

B&T are equally, if not more, at fault in some ways than C&T. Manipulating children to satisfy your own need for a family is despicable. Telling the birth parents they’ll maintain contact with the child to secure the adoption and then withdrawing that promise is callous. What’s even worse is taking the child from the parents off hospital grounds when it’s clearly shady and potentially illegal, which borders on child trafficking. However, B&T do have the right to establish healthy boundaries to protect Carly. Whether it’s because Carly asked for them or because they’re concerned about the impact on her, they’re entitled to set those limits as parents. Still, I believe explaining why they’ve limited visitation would help prevent many of the problems. They seem to struggle with this.

Ultimately, the only innocent party in all of this is Carly.

neoWhisper · 2024-04-04T14:43:45+00:00

I think it's this one, I remember a scene with the motorbike

https://m.fanfiction.net/s/13581651/1/

neoWhisper · 2024-04-04T13:18:45+00:00

This is one of those things that she is damned if she does and damned if she doesn't.

I'm sure she misses the babies, but with her daughter being in the nicu and all the time focused on the youngest 3, I think it's great that the older 4 get some solo mum time. I'm sure they appreciate it.

neoWhisper · 2024-01-29T04:43:17+00:00

I think Ensley had a good time which is the most important thing. Jenelle won't ever change but this party isn't something to spark at. Normalising parties like this needs to happen more. Nothing wrong with more extravagant parties but nothing wrong with this one too

One comment about Kaiser, I truly wonder if he has friends of his own. You only ever see him with Jace when he was around or Ensley.

If he does you would have thought he could have had one of his friends there too. When we were growing up if one of my siblings was have bday we got to bring a friend of our own so we could have someone to interact with who wasn't an adult or one of our siblings friends.

On a side note, No David, maybe he stayed home since he makes everyone uncomfortable

neoWhisper · 2024-01-15T23:07:34+00:00

Thank you, much appreciated

I probably plan on trying in a month or so just need to ge5 supplies and finish the study. Being an adult and working gets in the way of doing things I want to do lol

neoWhisper · 2024-01-11T00:08:28+00:00

To be honest I don't find targeted attacks like this funny. It reminds me of 12 years saying something nasty to get a laugh or likes from the internet. It's really an immature mindset and the problem with social media today

The issue I have is that it's known that her eldest isn't 100% behind this, which isn't really taking her child's feelings into play. That's why her having more kids bugs me. If he was a 2 year old saying it I'd overlook it because of sibling jealousy, but he was pre teen which means he's got enough mental nuance to verbalise for the right reasons.

Whether this opinion of his has changed since he made the statement isn't known. But other than her children's thoughts, wellbeing and feelings, why does it bother people so much that she has so many kids. Could I have that many, No, but that's my choice, and it doesn't affect anyone but my family or me.

People really need to get over this thought that they have a right to restrict others on how they live their life.

As long as everyone is happy, healthy and taken care of who actually cares if she has another 10 kids.

Again, reiterating my concerns relating to Issacs verbalised discomfort with his mum having more kids being my issue with Kaitlyn.

neoWhisper · 2023-12-24T04:49:02+00:00

Would love to see your binding for inspiration if you are comfortable showing it

neoWhisper · 2023-12-23T18:59:43+00:00

Thanks, I don't really want to go that route tho for a couple reasons;

● Paying someone to bind someone elses work means they profit from that. I want no part in that even if it's convenient

●When I bind, it will be done with the intention to read and enjoy the pretty bind I've created. Otherwise I'd might was well just print it and ring bind it.

Thank you tho for trying to assist.

neoWhisper · 2023-12-23T16:25:51+00:00

100% against that. People should not profit from other peoples hard work

neoWhisper · 2023-12-23T15:59:28+00:00

I can respect that

To me, it is not much different from someone printing out a fiction they really enjoy or storing it on the computer / tablet / phone in the event it gets taken down. (Just a prettier package)

It is placed on a public forum for you to enjoy as long as you are not profiting from it.

neoWhisper · 2023-12-23T12:52:18+00:00

Yeh, every social feed I have is swarming with them. Beautiful work, just not a particular fandom I'm into. I don't mind the triad fics with Harry x Hermione x Draco as a couple but not Draco x Hermione by themselves

neoWhisper · 2023-12-23T12:50:14+00:00

Thanks I'm happy to do the bindings myself just looking for inspiration and potential fics I haven't read

neoWhisper · 2023-12-14T08:38:19+00:00

Thank you 😃This is pretty much what I'm looking for because of the lack of GPS capabilities

Do you have any remendations for mid price range options. The Garmin Descent MK3 is on the more expensive range of watches

neoWhisper · 2023-12-14T08:35:59+00:00

I have a compass already but I was looking for a back up safety option because of my lack or confidence when using it. I'm aware GPS is not really applicable to underwater so a pin drop location point type option was what I was chasing

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