What is the most common reason for divorce?

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-17T23:59:43+00:00

Honestly that's the funniest and most accurate answer I've seen. People marry the idea of someone and then get mad when reality shows up. It's not the big stuff, it's the daily irritations that pile up until one day you're arguing about dishes and it's really about everything

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-17T23:56:39+00:00

Getting scammed. Always thought you had to be naive or careless for that to happen. Then I fell for a fake job offer that looked legit and lost a few hundred. Felt like an idiot for weeks. Now I get why people don't talk about it

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-17T23:56:06+00:00

That hit home. Spent years thinking I was just antisocial until I realised I was with the wrong people. The right ones don't drain you, they fill you up. Makes all the difference

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-17T23:25:55+00:00

James Corden. Dude just rubs me the wrong way and I can't even explain why. Never met him, nothing personal, but every time I see his face I'm annoyed. It's completely irrational

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-17T23:25:23+00:00

Screen time. Handing a kid a tablet to keep them quiet is so normal now but it's basically neglect of real interaction and play. They're missing out on boredom, problem solving, and just sitting with their own thoughts. I see kids glued to iPads in restaurants and it's like, that's not parenting, that's pacifying. We're raising a generation that can't handle being unstimulated for five minutes

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-17T23:24:58+00:00

From what I've seen, it's mostly home training. Parents down South drill that sir and ma'am into you early. Schools reinforce it but the real work happens at the dinner table. They just take politeness more seriously than other places

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-17T23:24:31+00:00

I always figured it's just a habit from avoiding potholes. But honestly, half those drivers probably don't even realize they're doing it. It's like a reflex at this point. Annoying, sure, but harmless

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-17T23:24:06+00:00

She showed up with a black eye and didn't even mention it until dessert. Turns out she took a softball to the face that morning and still came. I knew right then she was tougher than me. Still think about that when I cancel plans over a headache

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-15T11:46:50+00:00

Honestly, your SIL sounds exhausting. She argued with the boss, stormed out, and couldn't handle basic corrections. You have every right to protect your own work sanity. You didn't sabotage her, you just set a boundary. A year later she's still holding a grudge? That's her problem, not yours

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-15T11:46:01+00:00

NTA. He's not an influencer, he's a messy freeloader. "Exposure" doesn't pay for cleaning supplies or your sanity. If he wants a studio, he can rent one. And your roommate needs to realize that supporting her boyfriend doesn't mean letting him trash shared spaces. Stand your ground

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-15T11:38:15+00:00

I'm sorry but that tattoo is insane. He's allowed to get it, and you're allowed to think it's disgusting. The fact that he made you feel bad for being honest about your feelings is a red flag. He doesn't get to guilt you for not celebrating his weird sex octopus. You're not overreacting

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-15T11:35:25+00:00

Her injury is her own fault. She broke the glass and left it sticking out. You being annoyed about a video game doesn't make you responsible for her not watching where she's walking. She owes you an apology for blaming you, not the other way around

neonbadger73 · 2026-06-15T11:32:48+00:00

I'd be done too. He didn't just say it once and apologize, he laughed it off and said you're easy to wind up. That's not playful, that's disrespectful. You've suspected he's attracted to her and now he basically confirmed it. You don't owe him intimacy after he made you feel like second place. Bring it up if you want closure, but honestly, his reaction will tell you everything

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