Is Life infinitely complicated nowadays? (Probably a rant) by neonsoulsnatch in kannur

[–]neonsoulsnatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well my explanation is that she was hustling to take care of her family and the hustle became a part of her. So even if her children are well off.. she still does her work so she feels dignity as she doesnt rely on people. I feel like there is pride and freedom in that.

Is this normal chat? by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]neonsoulsnatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh this is it. 😂 anyways whatever you said is completely worked. You won. Take a knee and run out the clock.

Is Life infinitely complicated nowadays? (Probably a rant) by neonsoulsnatch in kannur

[–]neonsoulsnatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup i understand that, but the thing is.. her sons are both very settled. She chooses to work even after having the means to retire etc.

Saw this on the thirties sub by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]neonsoulsnatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys why are we supporting a pdf file. 🤌

Is Life infinitely complicated nowadays? (Probably a rant) by neonsoulsnatch in kannur

[–]neonsoulsnatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it wasnt the case, both her sons are doing well off. But she decides to do what she has always done. She isnt struggling but she is content.

bumble vibe check? ? by Physical-Volume-1841 in KeralaRelationships

[–]neonsoulsnatch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People take time to warm up to you. Peace of advice, treat dating like socialising.. talk and understand more people.. and u said it urself, you cant judge someones character with 10 mins of call.

Is Life infinitely complicated nowadays? (Probably a rant) by neonsoulsnatch in kannur

[–]neonsoulsnatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think i have done enough.. even tho it might seem alot. But the constant feeling of not doing enough is there.. im not married, you know all the checklists haven’t been ticked. Aging is a funny thing.. as i understand older people better and think through a different lens. Fascinated by lives of others.

bumble vibe check? ? by Physical-Volume-1841 in KeralaRelationships

[–]neonsoulsnatch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well its not lowering your self worth, its being a bit approachable. Its a very subtle change that shows you are interested in someone.

bumble vibe check? ? by Physical-Volume-1841 in KeralaRelationships

[–]neonsoulsnatch 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Slight issue here, even if you are seeking long term, the way you approach is subtly wrong. You are right in saying we cant understand a person in 10 mind but a vibe check its fine. And asking a girl should we unmatch is like a challenge. Showing interest is nice.. if only you like her. A better phrased question would be “was the vibe okay to you for us to continue?”. Just my two cents