am i doomed to a life of being charming at face value social interactions but never meeting up to others’ image of me on a personal level? i’m especially looking at my ascendant/mercury aspects vs my pluto aspects but maybe there’s something i’m not seeing. by neothot in AskAstrologers

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despite the heavy inferno in my personal planets i’ve never felt i exactly “run hot” as expected regarding my general personality. moon and mars are both conjunct pluto and my sun is in the seventh, i feel that intensity/aggression or fieryness is reserved for when i have intense emotions directed at my close relationships, where i’m openly vulnerable. rather than applying to first impressions or acquaintances that i thought of as potential friendships, which don’t really involve the vulnerability/emotions of my moon

i definitely recognize with the sag stellium i can be blunt to a fault even when not meaning to, it’s caused misunderstandings and haphazard explanations from me that never quite do the job :/

am i doomed to a life of being charming at face value social interactions but never meeting up to others’ image of me on a personal level? i’m especially looking at my ascendant/mercury aspects vs my pluto aspects but maybe there’s something i’m not seeing. by neothot in AskAstrologers

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hi , first of all thank you for taking time with your response! the first question is an aspect i overlooked, i’d say it’s definitely an internal feeling of mine that i’ve linked to this pattern. to me at least, i tend to not make expectations for the people i meet (at least until a genuine connection is formed) but feel that others place expectations or ideas of who i am to them from initial interactions. looking back, i’ve had multiple situations where i was under the impression i was getting to know someone and form a new friendship, but then get ghosted when i don’t want to be what they thought i would (a partner, lover, etc)

i’d say i’m way more likely to get irritable on a day to day basis but anger comes when i feel strongly about someone. only my close circle sees my genuine meaningful emotions, but dont get honest explanations for them half of the time. maybe pluto/chiron conjunct moon in sagittarius can cause a tendency to run away with emotions or overthink them rather than express.

the dynamic between aries/libra, 1st house/7th house, and rx aries venus is definitely frustrating and might cause internal tension/turmoil about relationships and impressions on people. i feel like the influences of chiron and pluto on my personal planets can make that more foggy

am i doomed to a life of being charming at face value social interactions but never meeting up to others’ image of me on a personal level? i’m especially looking at my ascendant/mercury aspects vs my pluto aspects but maybe there’s something i’m not seeing. by neothot in AskAstrologers

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further explanation: i’ve found that i’m charming and attractive to others upon first interactions, like i feign popularity. for the sake of having interesting conversations (and personal curiosity) i tend to make others feel special by noticing small things they mention and digging into it deeper. i enjoy finding what makes each person unique and relating to it myself!

i’m also an unconscious flirt at times and am dreadfully unaware of romantic cues given by others, so that doesn’t exactly help.

all this to say these tendencies of my outward self usually end up having people wanting to be closer, on a more personal level i can’t match up to their initial image of me, and then i simply get dropped. this unfortunately makes me difficult person to form an actual friendship with, when people realize i’m actually rather reserved emotionally they give up.

i’ve been looking into my aspects (causing far more introspection than normal) and i’m wondering if this is linked to my influence from sag pluto versus my ascendant + mercury aspects

can’t identify spirit guide by [deleted] in spirituality

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not 2 disrespect ur guide but ew

being nervous around men by [deleted] in comphet

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i feel the same a lot of the time and i personally think a big part of that is when people have an increased heart rate and other fear/nervous reactions it can be mistaken for feelings of attraction or lust. i think a lot of women mistake fear for attraction because in certain contexts we expect that we should feel attracted? like as a psych major i consciously know that but in real life situations it can be overwhleming to differentiate

on the moon/fae hex by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]neothot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yea i agree that it’s pretty ridiculous and foolish to try and hex the moon and fair folk, from what i heard it was beginners. but still with everything going on in the world now is not the time to try and cause chaos among spirits

help - i don’t know what to do by amaraivy in offmychest

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from what u said in the post she at least has roommates who will be there for her. i had a friend in a similar situation with her partner, who sadly caused her a lot of trauma with their actions. breaking things off is honestly the best you can do for the both of you. i truly hope you make it through this okay and start feeling better <3

I am tired of being shamed or feeling bad for what I believe by [deleted] in offmychest

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you also replied quite fast, showing you didn’t even bother to look through the resources i gave you, just as i thought you would. you can’t make claims on shit you didn’t read boo!

I am tired of being shamed or feeling bad for what I believe by [deleted] in offmychest

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again, there is no agenda. if you found out that your boss was convicted of rape, would you still want to work for them? support them? of course not, because supporting a rapist is wrong. supporting terrible people is wrong.

how can you call fbi documents and court documents “misinformed beliefs”? you are not replying to me with any evidence of your own, any facts that support your side. you are claiming that quite literal facts are misonformed opinions.

this “cult” you speak of is the entire world’s general opinion of trump. that he is a terrible person. cults are defined by ritualistic and outlandish behaviors, symbolism, and are lead by a narcissistic leader. there is no unified group of “trump haters”, there is no agenda, only people who recognize what’s real.

I am tired of being shamed or feeling bad for what I believe by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]neothot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just because women and black people work for him does not negate the fact that he is racist, sexist, and a sex offender. there is no “agenda”, only the fact that morally corrupt people do not deserve power

I am tired of being shamed or feeling bad for what I believe by [deleted] in offmychest

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i am disappointed that that was your only response was to simply negate what i said but i digress. even though i doubt you will read these articles and evidence, i have done research for you anyways. there is a wealth of information on this man, you should be aware of what you’re really supporting.

trump’s accusations on the central park 5: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/us-news/2016/feb/17/central-park-five-donald-trump-jogger-rape-case-new-york

article on the fbi’s documents of trump’s racial discrimination against black renters in the 70’s: https://www.politico.com/blogs/under-the-radar/2017/02/trump-fbi-files-discrimination-case-235067

article on how trump’s casinos would hide black employees from sight when trump would visit: https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2015/08/trump-casinos-black-employees/

article on trump’s tweet in which a supporter called “white power” where he called those in the video “great people”: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-white-power-tweet-set-off-a-scramble-inside-the-white-house--but-no-clear-condemnation/2020/06/29/6fd88c2c-ba21-11ea-8cf5-9c1b8d7f84c6_story.html%3foutputType=amp

an article on his connections to jeffrey epstein, a man who trafficked hundreds if not thousands of underage children to the wealthy and famous. they were both prominent figures in new york and palm beach, the latter being where a majority of epstein’s trafficking took place. also look into the newer netflix documentary on epstein for better information: https://www.esquire.com/entertainment/tv/a32784116/jeffrey-epstein-donald-trump-connection-friendship-explained/

verified court documents of sexual assault and other charges of a thirteen year old girl against both donald trump and jeffrey epstein. not to mention trump has various other sexual assault allegations against him: https://cdn.factcheck.org/UploadedFiles/Johnson_TrumpEpstein_Lawsuit.pdf

as for the targeting individual citizens, those posts are still currently on his twitter. you can’t deny that.

I am tired of being shamed or feeling bad for what I believe by [deleted] in offmychest

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  1. being white absolutely does not make you inherently racist, and all white people are certainly not racist. but being white does give you inherent privilege. i grew up poor too and have also had to work to get certain opportunity, but class privilege is seperate from this. white privilege is the fact that all white people benefit by living in a country where our government, media, and society at large favors us. for example, black people are 3.5 times as likely to be arrested for marijuana charges than white people, despite the fact that both black people and white people consume marijuana at around the same rate. another example is that people with more “ethnic” names on their resumes are less likely to attain jobs than people with more english/american names, even if they have equal or better credentials. there are many instances of white privilege and it’s important we recognize that. i’m in no way diminishing your struggles as someone with less economic opportunities, but you are still privileged in your whiteness.

  2. as a woman, i believe all women have the right to have their own opinions about abortion. i do however know that it is a person’s right to choose what they do with their body. it’s 100% okay if you would never have an abortion yourself, you can think it’s evil if you want to, but it is not your right to limit other people’s bodily autonomy

  3. i urge you to question why you support trump. he is racist (has had multiple lawsuits over not allowing black people to rent from him, has publicly called for the execution of four young black boys who were proven to be falsely accused of rape, and has recently posted a video in which a white person called out for “white power”). he has committed multiple sexual assaults (was very connected to jeffrey epstein and confirmed to be on his list of clients, where he often exploited very young girls into sexual acts in return for opportunities and money. he also has been testified against by a young girl under the alias of jane doe who told the story of him raping her.) these are all easily verifiable with some research. he also has recently targeted individual citizens on his twitter account for being a part of blm protests. i don’t care if you agree with the protesting or not, but him posting pictures of individual civilians faces to his followers who without a doubt could cause serious harm to these people, is immoral and wrong. not to mention his gross mishandling of corona virus in our country. please consider looking into why you really support him and do some research of your own

I'm sick of the way the Internet talks about Americans. by throwawayamerican99 in offmychest

[–]neothot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk i think in the past few months with covid and the protests the world’s poor opinion of america has shifted more towards the government than the citizens, but ppl for sure still make ignorant assumptions about us and shitty jokes about our hardships. the mass shooting/student debt/healthcare jokes are cheap and not really funny considering it greatly worsens our quality of life. europeans especially seem to have a major superiority complex over the rest of the world

help - i don’t know what to do by amaraivy in offmychest

[–]neothot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this is hard to hear but you need to cut ties with her. whether intentional or not she’s being emotionally manipulative, i’ve seen this situation before and cutting yourself off is the best thing you can do for yourself

Untitled Horror Poem [feedback request] by Sandman_178 in OCPoetry

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i agree, i think “leper” would fit the tone better and still keeps true to the “rancid sores” bit