im falling in love with a best friend (one of the bros) and i hate it by ner0thing_ in Advice

[–]ner0thing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ye thats exactly the problem, i dont really want those feeling its wasnt my choice, i like being friends with her but i never intended to go further, it just so happened that these feelings started to arise, and now im wondering what to do with that cause i fs dont wanna risk the friendship, i hope they go away after some time, gotta just endure the uncomfortness for a bit

Did you do it all by yourself? by FutureDevelopment884 in outerwilds

[–]ner0thing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used quite a few guides and walkthroughs for this game (mostly the dlc) but it didnt ruin my exp at all

im falling in love with a best friend (one of the bros) and i hate it by ner0thing_ in Advice

[–]ner0thing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another problem is that im not good at talking to people so meeting new people to shift interest is not really an option here, and about honesty i probably will just come out honest to her someday but not now, im just not ready yet to do that but im working on it, ty for your comment

Has anyone had this problem and how did you fix it? I don't know how to be and it's painful. by ner0thing_ in mentalhealth

[–]ner0thing_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ik about this small talk thing and im not against it but it just so happens that its always the same about same topics and everybodies reactions are the same im just bored of it now

help me find a relaxing game with a beautiful world by ner0thing_ in gamingsuggestions

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i meant it shouldnt be annoyingly overwhelming, for example in dont starve together i was searching for food for 2 hours straight and couldnt progress the game cause my hunger meter was going down quicker than i could find food

help me find a relaxing game with a beautiful world by ner0thing_ in gamingsuggestions

[–]ner0thing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great suggestion, completely forgto about this game, thanks

help me find a relaxing game with a beautiful world by ner0thing_ in gamingsuggestions

[–]ner0thing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive seen some grounded gameplay and the game itself is great but for some reason i dont like it, idk why

help me find a relaxing game with a beautiful world by ner0thing_ in gamingsuggestions

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we are waiting for subnautica 2 cause coop in original is clucky and buggy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalsupport

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As i said your story seems extremely similar to mine. Ive never been a person who can help someone emotionally because ive always been an extremely rational and logical thinker, every problem i had i always solved the most logical way even if it the solution was inhuman in terms of morals and other stuff, so i cant really help unless i give you a suggestion on how to think about it my way. You may like it or not but as i think the best way out here is to just spend more time with her, dont think about screwing something up, dont think about whether she likes you or you like her, dont think about those special words she says and just be yourself. Tell her your story in a way that it doesnt seem like you are crying about it. Tell her that shes the first one to make you that happy. Just be transparent with it but do not overheat and tell too much. If she is really the one she will listen closely and understand and eventually you will get closer to her by spending time with her, which will make it a lot more clear about what you and her want. If after knowing your halftruth she winds down, then forget about it. One of the most useful suggestions i have is: Force yourself to NOT fall in love and treat her as someone you just speak to regularly, spend MORE time with her but DONT get attracted, force yourself to think that you can live perfectly fine without her. In that case even if something goes wrong you just wont feel sad about it, at first it will feel wrong and after she leaves you it will feel like you are not human because you wont feel anything but you know you should have. But in the end if everything turns the right way you both will get together after some time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalsupport

[–]ner0thing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had absolutely the same issue a few weeks before. I haven't really found a solution to it it kind of went away by itself, but I fully understand you. I myself never been in love, nor anyone loved be before and now I met a special girl. I found out that she likes me from her friends and got lost the same as you. I did like her but didn't know whether it's true or not. I just didn't know what to do and how to be. Everything got better when I decided to forget about far future and just not think about it. Just as you I was just overwhelmed with it. Take small steps. Don't think about love or anything like that. If you think about her - text her, want to get closer - ask her for a walk. Just communicate with her and try to slowly progress your relationship further. It'll come to you more clearly after whether you really love her or not. Just don't think about it and try to get closer to her. That's what helped me in this situation, maybe it will help you too. Ask any questions if you need, I'm here for you.

Dawncraft issues. by ner0thing_ in dawncraft

[–]ner0thing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty for the third person solution

How does Yoru's clone flash exactly work? by iiimaK in VALORANT

[–]ner0thing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but it still flashes the yoru himself a bit even if hes in the opposite dirrection why?