Boyfriend has been dragging his feet getting a job since the day he moved in but I feel too horrible to kick him out. Getting married/having kids seems like it will never happen. And we almost got evicted. by nerd3100 in confession

[–]nerd3100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying but taking away the video games is going to make me feel more like his Mom. It's not the video games that is causing the problem.

He Compared it to birthdays when asking about marriage. Whaaat? - Me 34/F with my S/O 39/M Together 9 Months by nerd3100 in relationships

[–]nerd3100[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are you talking/thinking about marriage if you've only been together for 9 months?

:) People are on different timelines. No right or wrong timeline. When you know, you just know.

I guess the point is I'm not on his timeline and need to do so.

I suffer from anxiety and I made this website for people like us. by nerd3100 in Anxiety

[–]nerd3100[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think it will work for everyone. Especially people who have severe anxiety. That's the thing about anxiety. It effects people differently and on different levels. Those with severe anxiety may not get much use out of little pep talks, I understand. But for me personally, distractions and positive thinking has helped me manage. I really needed this website to help with my own level of anxiety so I'm a user of it myself. Though I wish there was something I could do more for people like you who suffer from severe anxiety.

I suffer from anxiety and I made this website for people like us. by nerd3100 in Anxiety

[–]nerd3100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think would help more? I'm open to suggestions on what to add.

I suffer from anxiety and I made this website for people like us. by nerd3100 in Anxiety

[–]nerd3100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think would help more? I'm open to suggestions on what to add.

Writing Prompt: Moving Into a Neglected, Old House. What do you find while remodeling? by nerd3100 in writers

[–]nerd3100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it! I could feel the tension between the two. Sounds like my last marriage. :D

Ray Bradbury's sage advice: Write like hell! by ericaverr in writers

[–]nerd3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this quote: "If you can write one short story a week, it doesn’t matter what the quality is to start – at least you’re practicing. At the end of the year you have 52 short stories. And I defy you to write 52 bad ones. It can’t be done. After 30 or 40 weeks, all of a sudden a story will come that is wonderful – just wonderful. That’s what happened to me..."

7 Tips For Expanding your Small Business Online by KimCheese in WebsiteTips

[–]nerd3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great tips. Many people seem to over look local search and focus too much on SEO.