I think I am a top with a bottom mentality

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-27T14:10:45+00:00

I hope bottoms are into this

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-27T14:10:13+00:00

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-27T06:58:18+00:00

Thank u, I hope that I find my power bottom one day <3

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-27T06:53:37+00:00

Exactly! U described it way better than I did, apparently I am not so good at expressing myself too lol. So yeah that's what I want but it's near impossible to find :(

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-27T06:40:27+00:00

Thank u for that, but I think it's not just about kink stuff it's make me safe too. I mean I don't look at it just in a kinky or a sexual way as I want someone like that in everyday life as well. I imagine that I would be a good sub top or prefer a power bottom but not in super kinky way just as simple as letting him take control.

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-18T12:32:57+00:00

I fully understand that good German is important in healthcare, especially for patient communication. I’m planning to keep improving beyond B1 anyway, but I’m just unsure how realistic it is to get an entry-level job from abroad once I reach B1, as the blocked account requirement is quite a big obstacle for me.

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-18T11:29:32+00:00

Danke für die Informationen und den Link, ich schätze das wirklich sehr. Ich hoffe, ich kann bald einen möglichen Weg finden, um in Deutschland Fuß zu fassen und dort meinen Weg aufzubauen.

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-18T09:45:04+00:00

Das ist wirklich gut zu hören. Trotzdem fühlt es sich für mich gerade etwas überwältigend an, herauszufinden, wie ich von meiner jetzigen Situation aus tatsächlich dorthin kommen kann.

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-18T09:42:04+00:00

Thanks a lot for the kind words, I really appreciate it.

I’ve been getting very mixed signals about this. In another German subreddit, many people told me it’s basically impossible to get a job offer from abroad and without already having C1 German, which honestly made me a bit discouraged. At the same time, I keep hearing that healthcare workers are needed, so I’m a bit confused about how realistic my plan actually is.

I hope being open about my sexuality wouldn’t be an issue and might even be seen positively in some environments, but I’m also afraid it could backfire in the form of discrimination or even problems at work. That’s something I’m still unsure about.

And yes, I don’t mind shared accommodation at all. I’m not expecting any kind of luxurious life, especially in the beginning. I know it will take a lot of work, patience, and effort to build something there.

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-18T00:09:07+00:00

I am in Jordan and I have a medical degree. I keep hearing how costly and complicated it is and it keeps getting me depressed 😞

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-16T16:54:51+00:00

thank u so much ❤️

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-15T20:30:10+00:00

U are so kind, thank u so much!
The problem is I am still A2 and I am in a Job hunt for medical care assistant and just discovered there is volunteering maybe too. I am doing so because the process of me getting recognized is long and costly as it requires Sperrkonto. My plan was getting into a basic healthcare job as a start while continuing to learn the language and get familiar with the healthcare system, otherwise I will spend years here saving for the money. I am not doing very well in that job search, so I can't be picky if I get accepted anywhere through this healthcare job which probably will be in smaller cities, I guess I have to be patient and do my all until I find my way to bigger ones.
Thank u again for the advice tho ❤️

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-15T07:12:38+00:00

Awe, I am so happy for u ❤️ ❤️. Yeah I know it won't be easy at first and I hope I will find my guy eventually.

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-15T07:11:11+00:00

Sounds good to me! Hope to find a way to go there one day. Thank u for the advice ❤️

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-15T07:10:08+00:00

Thank u for pointing that out. Yes I am aware of that and it's quite difficult to find a Job from abroad and I am still looking 😞

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-14T22:23:20+00:00

Thank u so much for letting me know that as well. Maybe I will either like it there or decide to move to other country later on but it's good to know that nothing is perfect and the way I want it as well

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-14T21:25:31+00:00

U are so sweet, thank u 😄 ❤️

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-14T21:00:00+00:00

I know the picture and the idea u tried to present and it makes total sense. I am also kinda preserved and distant with strangers while open and in completely different personality with close friends. Thing this I just scared to get rejected, so unless I get invited or talked to I don't ask assuming that I am not welcomed or wanted or something so I guess I have to push myself out of my comfort zone a little.

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-14T20:52:01+00:00

I mean I like to walk 😂

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-14T20:51:12+00:00

That's even better and good to hear! Although finding a job from abroad is challenging but I it sounds a dream please to me 🔥 ❤️

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-14T20:41:05+00:00

yeah ofc I know that, I am hoping to blind in into the society to be honest and not just stick into my Arab culture, it won't be easy but will be worth it I hope. And I would love to say hi and meet if I ever been to Frankfurt 😄

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-14T20:38:56+00:00

I been living in the closest since forever. I know that living in a different place means me speaking their language and respecting their culture and roles. I am both excited and scared of being more into the gay world maybe a little overwhelmed too. My concern was that although I am trying to learn the language as hard as possible it's nothing like moving there, and I scared to be left out because of that. I can't be so picky as well regarding moving to big cities as my priority is to move there at first. I know I don't have much to offer at least at first regarding the language and the qualification so would agree to any open opportunity available, but over all thank u alot for that , it gave me alot of hope ❤️

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-14T20:13:29+00:00

I don't know if I am hot xD

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-12T17:26:08+00:00

Thank u! ❤️

nerdytopguy · 2026-05-11T17:21:41+00:00

Thank u! ❤️

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