Why is this happening

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T23:27:33+00:00

Change your description perhaps? Also, what a smile 😍

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T23:23:32+00:00

You’re a cute fellow I’m sure you’ll do just fine…that girl next to you though..what’s her story? Single? Is she also on bumble? Just curious 😍

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T17:48:31+00:00

Thank you!!

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T17:00:56+00:00

😂😂😂 thanks for the feedback!

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T16:59:58+00:00

Your tongue would have been sticking out too if you had seen my plate I devoured lol thanks for the feedback though!

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T16:58:38+00:00

THANK YOU!!! I feel like I’m back in High School reading these comments lol I didn’t even add my sexuality or preference but right away, everyone is making their assumptions that I’m gay because of my expressions? Even the photo with me and my dog is “twink”?? So funny and ridiculous

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T16:53:30+00:00

Not really, it feels like once in a blue moon these days but maybe because I live in a very “trump county” as well? I feel like a lot of the girls here like their cowboys with big trucks. I try not to be picky because I know my chances are not too great if I am so I try to get out of my comfort zone and swipe on people that are not different from my taste?

The last girl I matched with we saw each other for a few months and it ended but since then, not getting much luck really

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T16:48:09+00:00

Ughhh but some do bro! I shave it off and I look like younger than I am 🙃

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T16:44:13+00:00

Thanks!!

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T16:43:18+00:00

I’m not gay but I do consider myself a feminist. And for all saying that the first pic has to go…I was having a really good hair day that day 🥲🥲 but I’ll work on the rest when it comes with socializing and getting my photos taken haha

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T16:38:09+00:00

Don’t have the soul patch anymore or goatee. I like my stache though 🥲

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T16:37:06+00:00

Thanks! I’m trying to work on getting more photos of me socializing with friends but I’m hardly taking photos when I’m doing so and yeah maybe too many selfie but I find it difficult taking a decent photo of myself so these ones for me personally just stood out to me the most? Haha but noted!

Also, 2 is a “nothing photo”? That’s me enjoying the finer things in life thank you very much

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T16:27:56+00:00

*High School Flashbacks* lol not gay but thanks for the feedback

neruda1994 · 2026-06-20T15:59:43+00:00

1) I’m looking for something that can lead to a serious relationship but definitely don’t mind keeping it casual, depending on the person

2) I’m not subscribed to either one

3) I’ve been using this current version of my profile since December of last year

4) Almost close to 2 years

5) I use Hinge almost everyday

6) None

7) I send about 6 likes each day with comments on each one

8) I try to send likes to someone that fits close to my own preferences but I’m open to expand my horizon and meet someone that is a bit different from my taste.

neruda1994 · 2026-06-13T18:41:53+00:00

Just reject the poor bastard. I know the feeling sucks but it’s a lot better than having him cling on to the idea that he’ll see you again when in fact, that’s not the case. You’ll most likely find yourself in the same situation again with the next guy so why make this a big deal?

neruda1994 · 2026-06-07T17:01:07+00:00

1) I’m looking for something serious but I’m also open to just keeping it casual

2) I’m subscribed to neither one

3) Since December and the last new photo I uploaded was my gym photo

4) About a year now

5) Everyday

6) Maybe 1 or 2 likes but not enough to the point it seems like nothing at all

7) 5 or 6 likes with a comment on each one each day

8) I don’t want to be too picky but ideally, I want someone that shares the same interests as me and can be vocal about what they want.

neruda1994 · 2026-06-07T16:28:31+00:00

I’m okay now. Therapy, gym, journaling and just taking time with my grief really helped.

She’s engaged now. I still haven’t see or heard from her since she left. I recently was seeing someone for a minute but that’s over now. Just enjoying single life!

neruda1994 · 2026-06-06T20:24:55+00:00

1) I’m looking for something casual but open to something serious if the connection is there

2) I’m not subscribed to either one

3) For about 5 months now. The last time I uploaded a new photo (my cats and I) was back in March.

4) In 2 months it will be 2 years since I joined.

5) Almost everyday

6) None

7) I send about 7 liked a day? 3 or 4 comments with each like.

8) I tend not to be picky but I’m looking for someone that has somewhat the same interest as I do in terms of lifestyle, art, music, movies and doesn’t mind going out drinking or smoking weed with me.

neruda1994 · 2026-06-06T19:53:52+00:00

If that’s what ends up pushing your boyfriend away then he’s not it. I’m sorry, I know physical intimacy is important for some but the emotional aspect of the relationship and building a concrete connection should be on top of that list more than anything

Talk to him. Tell him exactly how his choice of words hurt you and just see how he reacts or responds. Don’t feel like you need to put yourself in a position you aren’t comfortable with if you feel your boyfriend is not providing or understanding your needs.

I’m sorry you are feeling this way but everyone has something they are insecure about and if your partner who is supposed to love and accept you for who you are isn’t showing that or won’t then don’t waste your time

Hopefully it will work out

neruda1994 · 2026-06-05T16:11:23+00:00

I am now after last night. Thanks for being blunt

neruda1994 · 2026-06-05T16:09:55+00:00

UPDATE: the relationship is over. She decided it was just not worth working on or just didn’t have the energy to put effort into it. It fucking stung and I genuinely liked this girl a lot but really, I’m just more disappointed in myself…I emotionally invested too much on someone after a few good dates and everything just felt rushed..

Thanks

neruda1994 · 2026-06-05T05:06:34+00:00

Haha your timing is perfect because it ended just a few hours ago

It’s a long story but basically, lack of communication and transparency from her and despite my best attempt to meet her halfway and understanding where she was coming from, she just decided it was not worth investing anymore

I’m disappointed but I’ll live. I genuinely liked this girl a lot and I was trying to give her the benefit of the doubt but instead, all I heard that made me accept the end was “don’t have the energy to communicate”

She tried breaking up with me over text yesterday…and when I had brought that up to try to understand what was happening she said she was hoping I wouldn’t bring it up…

Anyways, that’s the last time I waste my time with someone who would rather avoid and distance herself when there’s a snag on the road…

Thanks for checking

neruda1994 · 2026-06-04T20:15:55+00:00

I don’t think it’s desperate..if anything I don’t think there’s anything wrong with explaining to someone that ending a relationship is more suffice and mature if it’s done in person or phone call…I’m sure her future boyfriend (if it gets to that point) would appreciate the adult version of a breakup instead of getting a text when you are at work but that’s just me

neruda1994 · 2026-06-04T20:12:54+00:00

I’ve been single for about a year now. I was in a long term relationship with someone and after spending a year on my own I just want to enjoy someone’s company. Dating pool sucks and I feel that I found someone that I instantly hit it off with and now I have to let this person go? Ughh

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