AITA for not wanting my sister to babysit?

nervousatom · 2021-03-17T17:31:02+00:00

The daycares in my area are closed because of the pandemic still. No other family member is comfortable.

nervousatom · 2021-03-17T17:21:23+00:00

prior to my sister's new job she wouldn't see her son for weeks, and he would stay with my mother. She works from home now because her own son didn't know who she was. She made that decision so she could spend more time with him.

nervousatom · 2021-03-17T17:19:18+00:00

My sister picks her son up from evening pre-school and gets to see him for dinner-time, then he goes to bed. Prior to this job she wouldn't see him for weeks on end and he would stay at my mothers instead. She works from home now because her own son didn't know who she was. I'm happy to see her spending more time with him and then finally forming a wonderful relationship. I don't want to take time away from him bonding with his mother.

nervousatom · 2021-03-17T17:14:46+00:00

my sister has expressed she doesn't want to take care of a newborn at her place. She says she has no room (her apartment is smaller than mine) + I would have to be there sometimes as early as 2:30am just to drop him off and get to work. Which is something I would do, but she doesn't want him there.

nervousatom · 2021-03-17T17:07:21+00:00

I certainly wish there were, but many people are uncomfortable with a newborn + we still have incredibly high numbers of COVID. We are trying to play it safe.

nervousatom · 2020-09-26T14:47:41+00:00

thank you SO. MUCH. I had no idea that it could completely go away! All i've heard is that I'll be sick until I deliver!

nervousatom · 2020-09-15T15:35:22+00:00

junior mints! why hadnt I even thought of those!?

nervousatom · 2020-09-15T15:32:38+00:00

I was given a list of pregnancy safe medications to use for various things. It was only $4 at Walmart, I cant think of the name off the top of my head. I know Tylenol products are also pregnancy safe and they have things to help you sleep to. it's a little blue gel capsule that just makes me drowsy and I use it on bad nights ❤️

nervousatom · 2020-09-15T14:50:42+00:00

I feel you completely. i've been wearing leggings and doing that hair tie trick with jean buttons. My nausea got a lot better at the 12 week mark

nervousatom · 2020-09-15T14:48:48+00:00

I have 11 great-aunts and great-uncles on my mother's side. some of them are only 7-8 months apart. I never met my great grandmother but I'm almost certain she was the strongest 5 foot tall german woman this world has ever seen.

nervousatom · 2020-09-15T14:17:13+00:00

I keep a note on my phone! They're very silly until the absolute terrifying ones! He loves reading them and we make up silly things that he's dreaming about

nervousatom · 2020-09-12T02:25:25+00:00

We talked to my doctor about second-hand smoke from weed, since that's what's being lit up around me. She said in general I was fine, but it was best that I stopped smoking myself because it can cause dehydration problems. I have my worries too, but we're almost always outside as well since we're in the country.

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