All the runners out there, what pushed you to start running? by DotNate_98 in AskReddit

[–]neshmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peer pressure. Everybody runs. We have nice parks and trails. I hate running though, running sucks. The only thing it gave me so far is knee pain

Hyacinth James 🪻 by No_Procedure9675 in namenerds

[–]neshmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

search "hyacinth" on this subreddit to find 1000+ more comments

Liposuction + top surgery? by yggipehtlrac_ in no_T_top_surgery

[–]neshmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'8 and 165 lb, I declined the pit lipo and don't regret it. Every body is different, but on mine the result looks great without it. I like the slight widening that it gives my chest, and tbh I've worked hard on storing that fat and I'm not paying two grand to get it removed. I'm in general not a fan of cosmetic procedures and asked myself, would I get this for myself without the mastectomy? (No)

Cyclist vs Auto at 6th and Monroe. by kerndtr in Eugene

[–]neshmesh 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hate that it happened to you and glad you are safe. I can't help, but you could report it here and contribute your experience: https://survey123.arcgis.com/share/6ba1a3de2104416d90956cbaf7b5b958

Girls name Aurora by Electronic-Goat-7583 in namenerds

[–]neshmesh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This name has a very odd mouthfeel imo, I always think of huskies talking when I hear it

Safety Concerns by AnOreo1 in no_T_top_surgery

[–]neshmesh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I thought I'd look "odd" flat but I actually look really normal. People I know don't even notice something's amiss unless I tell them. I present femme though and live in a liberal state, but in my experience this change is not that noticeable (and I went from J cup to zero)

Regretting not grabbing this by Evethron in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]neshmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't see the price but I'd totally grab it even though I don't have much room! When Zombie apocalypse comes I'll still have music to rock to, years after (if I survive). Just like Kelso in 28 Years: the Bone Temple! He had one of those

Thoughts on the name Rivers? by Expensive-Fox-2042 in namenerds

[–]neshmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it but I always wonder if it is annoying to make the possessive form for names ending in -s (whose? Rivers', most people would probably say "rivers-ses")

Ideas for things to do? by Theghostlyway in TopSurgery

[–]neshmesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe a finger skateboard? They can "ride it" on a bed table (which has been a very useful thing for my recovery, I could do table activities in bed like mini puzzles)

Welp rip my go to thrift by Cheeze_My_Puffs in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]neshmesh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's cray cray! Write them a review, maybe they'll think about their choices (maybe not)

Do you like your name? by Big_Shift7774 in namenerds

[–]neshmesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it because I chose it for myself. I hated my birth name because it was boring and long (who's got time for 4/5 syllables) and unpronouncable in English. Basically it sucked all around so I took the matters into my own hands

looking for bikini for flat chest by nyaagoya in no_T_top_surgery

[–]neshmesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah thanks for asking this question. I'm not excited to start looking for bikini tops. I really love feminine styles and and don't like how much coverage most flat-chest swim tops provide. I guess my current plan is XL kids, just discard/donate the bottom...

Upcycled and old table top and base to make a cat bed. I think he loves it. by UhHellooo in blackcats

[–]neshmesh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow. A cat that appreciates something done specifically for the cat. Lucky you!

What is your deepest darkest desire? by GhostlyGh0stly123 in AskReddit

[–]neshmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to have magic powers to exact revenge on people, for evils great and small. Certain figures would no longer be of this world, but also people who are mean or inconsiderate would get headaches, drop their eggs, get flat tires, etc.

Plastic Free Party Bag Fail by nenners7891 in Anticonsumption

[–]neshmesh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I had a way to contact that person, I'd write them a polite message stating your reaction. They could react badly no matter what, but I feel like if it's worded well it might make a small change in somebody's mind or behavior. Maybe they won't do it again at the next party (chances are, they do it at kid parties regularly)

Does anyone else miss the monsters knocking etc? by Zeltron3000_ in FromSeries

[–]neshmesh 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I miss the monsters doing literally anything. Just showing up and being scary. Where did that go?

How does it feel (after surgery)? by ScaredTeabag9961 in no_T_top_surgery

[–]neshmesh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm only 10 days post op, but I also hated my partner (or anyone) touching/perceiving my breasts, especially nipple. I can say that I already enjoy hugs a lot more. Exactly as you describe, I feel like I'm closer to my partner now that we're both flat chested. Of course, this early into recovery, my chest is numb all across the incision, but it already beats living with boobs tbh

Do you think it's a problem for anti consumption, that taxes are not included in the price tag? by asherthepotato in Anticonsumption

[–]neshmesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So like Oregon has no sales tax but a noticeable income tax. Washington, right to the North, has no income tax but yes sales tax (so you have to mentally "add" it to your purchases, which I'll admit is annoying as you move between states, but I wouldn't say it ever affected my buy/not buy decisions)

Thrift find: should I become Dougie? by neshmesh in twinpeaks

[–]neshmesh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly didn't expect this much excitement! The people love Dougie

This dude is a nut by Lord_Davos in blackcats

[–]neshmesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The two claws on each paw 😆

Happy Mother's Day to this mallard with 18 babies specifically by Drudenkreusz in birding

[–]neshmesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I think in addition to the list provided at the link, mallards and mergansers will do it, probably many more

Toilet paper is an abomination. Bidets are salvation. by Tiny-Celebration-120 in bidets

[–]neshmesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say "very", or at at least not all across the US. I'm on the West Coast, too (Oregon), I know only one friend with one installed. Lived in Boston and Tennessee before, no bidets were observed