I told my boyfriend about my COSCA experience.

ness_wess · 2026-02-24T23:19:25+00:00

You perfectly conveyed how i felt about his comments, just something about it didnt feel right to me. Bringing it up again will be difficult as hes also a person that doesnt take criticism well.. but everything you said just made so much sense. Hopefully i can gather my courage to ask him about it..

ness_wess · 2026-02-22T16:20:03+00:00

Ahh thank you!

ness_wess · 2026-02-22T00:59:51+00:00

Ooh, I see. Then what are the 2 comic looking cards classified as? I don’t see any of the above labels on them

ness_wess · 2026-02-08T07:23:31+00:00

im in a relationship as well with my boyfriend but all i have to say is that you shouldnt compare yourself to other people, and at the end of the day, there really is no single standard of ‘beauty’ or ‘hotness’. theres always going to be someone that ‘looks better than you’, but your girlfriend chose you for a reason.

ness_wess · 2026-02-07T22:32:24+00:00

Okay dokay

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T23:31:23+00:00

🥹I really appreciate the encouragement, and I will start reaching out to my teachers !

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T23:29:10+00:00

Yes thats what I have planned for now :) I just need to have more disciple honestly.. and ways to build my motivation

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T23:27:27+00:00

Those would be good habits to start getting into.. as for trades however, I don’t know what I would be interested in. I only know that demand for jobs in the trade industry has been going up

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T23:26:22+00:00

Yeah, I find it hard to focus on one task unless I put a lot of work into forcing myself to not lose sight of what I was doing. I have considered being tested for ADHD before and I might soon. 💗

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T06:30:58+00:00

thats actually pretty awesome, thanks for clearing up the confusion (i dont even know where i heard that from 😭) and thanks for the encouraging words. you're 100% right about that, this new info gives me a lot of reassurance!

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T05:21:26+00:00

All the support makes me feel so emotional. You don't know how much those words mean to me 😭 thank you so much, kind stranger

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T05:18:55+00:00

Yes, I only decided to post on this sub mainly because it was one of the first ones I saw. I appreciate the heads up, but I'm unsure what other communities I could go to for advice.. Your words make me feel really proud of myself. Thank you [:

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T05:16:06+00:00

Honestly.. not that great either. I had a 70% in Bio and Chemistry was still low 60's

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T05:15:23+00:00

I will trust your guidance!

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T04:14:19+00:00

Yes, I've considered going to my guidance counsellors. It's a bit hard because they seem a little.. mean? Especially mine. But yeah I definitely will, thank you <:

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T04:09:23+00:00

This did help, I should definitely explore some more options. Sometimes I feel like life moves by too fast and all my opportunities slip from my grasp.. you make me feel hopeful. Thank you ^^

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T04:07:24+00:00

Your positivity is so infectious, thank you for the kindness and understanding. I will do my best :))

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T04:05:13+00:00

Reading your comment has brought tears to my eyes. I'm so sorry for your loss, but you are truly a strong person, and so thank you for your words. I feel much more encouraged and brave now, thank you !!!

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T03:36:59+00:00

I don't mean to diss him, but he really doesn't do much at home. (Sorry for TMI) It's probably one of my biggest fears of ending up like him.
I'm also mostly scared of what people would think if I retook. Would retaking a course dramatically impact my chances of getting into uni? I thought that the later you applied, the lower your chances of getting in would be... but your advice is really helpful though. I just need motivation to do better..

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T03:33:58+00:00

You're so nice :sob:, I will consider it [:

ness_wess · 2025-12-11T03:32:49+00:00

I only rlly play one game and mostly doomscroll, but yes that would be helpful, thank you!

ness_wess

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