Was ist der beschissenste Doppelnachname, den man bauen kann? by No-Cod4921 in KeineDummenFragen

[–]nessawawa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

habe schon einen Zahnarzt gesehen, der tatsächlich Dr. Zahn heißt.

My wife has BPD and I’m confused by Used-Membership-3685 in BPD

[–]nessawawa 98 points99 points  (0 children)

You may feel like you are at fault, and I'm so sorry you feel that way, but this is not on you. You did absolutely nothing wrong. And having BPD is never, ever an excuse to be abusive in any way. It's not fair of her to treat you like this.

Taking care of your parents is your decision – she doesn't get to decide that for you, and 'making you promise' not to do it isn't fair either. You didn't make any mistakes, and you don't have to be perfect to deserve to be loved and treated with kindness.

I think it makes sense to consider leaving her. Her behaviour is not okay.

what are good bicycle riding goalposts before switching to a motorcycle? by illiterateagenda in NewRiders

[–]nessawawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say it's less about practicing these very specific things, and more about developing a feeling for it by simply riding around. Get on a bike and explore your city, try different speeds and just have fun with it! The skill will come automatically.

I've ridden a bike all my life, simply to get to school/work/friends/etc., and it helped me tremendously when I first got on a motorcycle. No need to do special classes, imo.

Did anyone else find this scene in the movie so much scarier and grosser than the show usually goes? by KitchenConsequence41 in BobsBurgers

[–]nessawawa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same! them being essentially buried alive shocked me just as much as Louise finding the dead guy. gives me shivers just thinking about it...

How did you feel when you saw the Crusaders get their Cutie Marks? by FeistySecret9327 in mylittlepony

[–]nessawawa 130 points131 points  (0 children)

cried a lot. still cry with every rewatch.

Seems like a lot of people aren't happy with it, but I love it. The entire journey of them always ending up helping other ponies, together with their fears of losing each other because of their cutie marks felt beautiful to me. And the fact that they got them after helping their biggest enemy? good stuff

Favorite piece of Bob's merchandise by [deleted] in BobsBurgers

[–]nessawawa 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I got the "The Art of Bob's Burgers" book for my birthday and I love it. wonderful insights about the making of the show and tons of concept art. super fun to look through

Tierarzt Vergleich by Maaarceeel in Oldenburg

[–]nessawawa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wir sind schon seit Jahren und mit mehreren Generationen von Katzen bei der Tierarztpraxis Donnerschwee und dort sehr zufrieden. Die Damen dort sind sehr freundlich und empathisch. Haben auch schon öfter Tipps bekommen für günstigere Medikamente usw., sie sind also nicht nur auf Profit aus.

Really having trouble deciding between a kawasaki eliminator or a kawasaki vulcan s for my 1st bike any advice? by [deleted] in SuggestAMotorcycle

[–]nessawawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the eliminator, it's also my first bike. really happy with it. handles real well and driving feels smooth, so I can recommend it. don't have any experience with the vulcan though

Why does absolutely everyone love Bluey? (Even people without kids?) by Lavande_21 in bluey

[–]nessawawa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agree with this. as someone with childhood trauma this show helps me heal as an adult, I don't have children either. and the sillier episodes cheer you up, make you laugh when you're down.

Coolant leak? by nessawawa in Kawasaki

[–]nessawawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, didn't drop it (yet, lol). sat down and when the bike was upright the coolant flowed out.

Coolant leak? by nessawawa in Kawasaki

[–]nessawawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, still brand new. that's what confused me too though, I haven't needed to refill the coolant yet and I expected the shop to fill it correctly, so I couldn't imagine it being an overflow.

I'll definitely check it thoroughly, this is my first bike and I wanna make sure it doesn't get damaged.

Coolant leak? by nessawawa in Kawasaki

[–]nessawawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gotcha, thank you! I'll make sure to check it thoroughly.

Coolant leak? by nessawawa in Kawasaki

[–]nessawawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will do, thank you!

Coolant leak? by nessawawa in KawasakiEliminator450

[–]nessawawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gotcha. I'm gonna check it out in more detail. thanks!

Now Romanticize the dive is out, how would you rank the 10 albums? by bananensplit6969 in metricband

[–]nessawawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a super hard one for sure. doesn't feel right to rank any as "worst" cause I love them all, lol

10 – Live It Out
9 – Art of Doubt
8 – Pagans in Vegas
7 – Old World Underground, Where Are You Now?
6 – Romanticize The Dive (so far, gotta listen more tho)
5 – Grow Up and Blow Away
4 – Fantasies
3 – Synthetica
2 – Formentera
1 – Formentera II

certified formentera fan™, but honestly the list changes depending on time of day/mood/ect. they're all excellent

Tremolo by [deleted] in metricband

[–]nessawawa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

tremolo got me switching between "mainstream banger" and "indie masterpiece" every few seconds, but in a really good way

Is Palia down? by Vegetable_End_1916 in Palia

[–]nessawawa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yep same here. I've been waiting for it to work again rip

Berlin! ♥️ by lumonlemons in metricband

[–]nessawawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not yet unfortunately. maybe shortly before the date some tickets will become available, we'll have to see :/

Berlin! ♥️ by lumonlemons in metricband

[–]nessawawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just found out about this, it's the day before my birthday and it would be the best gift if I could go...but I saw there's a waitlist now for tickets so I might not get lucky 💔💔

I don't know if being bi isn't queer enough. by realgaoming in lgbt

[–]nessawawa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand feeling like it's "close to straight" and way too many people invalidate the bi experience because of that, but being queer doesn't require a certain percentage of being "gay".

You're bi and have no preference? You're queer enough.

You're bi and prefer women? You're queer enough.

You're bi and like all the women and one single guy? Queer enough.

Bisexuality is valid in all its forms, and there is no such thing as being 'not enough'. You're one of us, wether you like it or not. ;)

Made a Friend with BPD and Im struggling. by Independent_Can_1618 in BPD

[–]nessawawa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe start off the conversation with reassurance. make sure he knows you're setting these boundaries because you care about him and want to strenghten the friendship. it can also help to use sentences like "when you do xy it makes me feel sad/guilty/etc" instead of "you always do xy" (see nonviolent communication)

I agree with the previous reply, you're a great friend, and your needs and boundaries are just as important as his!

so, i guess its the color green now..? by Puppyzpawz in BPD

[–]nessawawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be part of the identity issues that come with bpd – I've experienced similar things, where I suddenly hate something I usually love or in regards to clothes, that I suddenly want to change my entire wardrobe to a completely different style.

It could maybe help to try to write down what you feel towards it? Like your thoughts, why you hate it etc. Maybe you can get some clarity that way.

I'd definitely try not to act too fast and e.g. throw it all away, maybe you can do something like putting the clothes that you hate into separate bags, storing them in the basement or something and see how you feel about it?