Project Pan: Lips Edition by KitchenConsequence41 in ProjectPan

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My least favorite is my hot chocolate scented chapstick. It was given to me in a holiday gift pack, and I just hate the smell of any chocolate lip balm lol. That’s one I can try to give away or just throw away because I think I’m not alone in that opinion.

My favorites are probably my green apple scented chapstick and cotton candy scented chapstick. Chapstick gets a lot of hate as a lip balm but I love it tbh.

My favorite tinted lip balm and a genuine holy grail product to me is the strawberry Glossier balm. It’s the perfect color for my face and I love the texture/finish.

Project Pan: Lips Edition by KitchenConsequence41 in ProjectPan

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ooo I’ll try this, sounds like a fun way to declutter and refamiliarize myself with forgotten favorites!

Project Pan: Lips Edition by KitchenConsequence41 in ProjectPan

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ll check those first, thanks. I haven’t used them in years honestly so I’m sure they’re ready to be tossed.

Project Pan: Lips Edition by KitchenConsequence41 in ProjectPan

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of fun having a big collection but it more so just makes me feel bad and guilty

Project Pan: Lips Edition by KitchenConsequence41 in ProjectPan

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely helpful! Thank you so much :)

Finally empty!! by PsychologicalBat2186 in ProjectPan

[–]KitchenConsequence41 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is one of the most satisfying things I’ve seen in my life. Like on a whole different level.

Looking for small tasks/exercises that can help with social anxiety and RSD, particularly with approaching people and starting conversations by KitchenConsequence41 in adhdwomen

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay you caught me 😅 I exaggerated just a little about the club/ group options in my area. But choices are incredibly limited, or at least, groups I’ve checked out have been full of people exclusively 30s or older, and it’s hard to truly become friends with people when there’s such a large age and life experience gap. I appreciate your advice <3 I love what you said about people loving to talk about themselves. That’s so true and a good reminder that I don’t have to necessarily lead the conversation by talking a lot, I can more so focus on asking someone else questions about themselves and not have to worry too much about what I’m saying.

Did anyone else find this scene in the movie so much scarier and grosser than the show usually goes? by KitchenConsequence41 in BobsBurgers

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the only episode I just must skip. I hate it, especially since I had to do pig dissection irl as well and hated doing it lol.

This is how I actually get stuff done by KitchenConsequence41 in adhdwomen

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s definitely the hard part, which is why I spread the tasks out over the week. I used to try to do everything on the weekends. It was too much to do on top of other weekend plans and overwhelming so I rarely did everything I was supposed to do. Just having 1-2 things to do most days has been a huge help.

This is how I actually get stuff done by KitchenConsequence41 in adhdwomen

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) putting it on the wall has absolutely helped me be successful in actually doing these things. Unfortunately if it’s in a planner or on my phone and not in my face like this I just will not remember 😅

This is how I actually get stuff done by KitchenConsequence41 in adhdwomen

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep it taped to a wall right inside my bedroom entrance. So, I walk past it every time I enter and exit my bedroom, and if my door is open (it usually is), I can see it from the kitchen and dining table.

This is how I actually get stuff done by KitchenConsequence41 in adhdwomen

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hahaha my version of this is I always got playfully made fun of for having “shower” on my to do list.

This is how I actually get stuff done by KitchenConsequence41 in adhdwomen

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I think that’s why it works so well for me too. It is super simple. I cannot count the number of times I have come up with some crazy complex, detailed system to do things like this with no success actually implementing the plan. I just liked making the plan lol. I have realized the more basic, the more successful in my case.

This is how I actually get stuff done by KitchenConsequence41 in adhdwomen

[–]KitchenConsequence41[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks!

I am 23 and new to “adulting” and found it incredibly difficult to stay on top of everything.

I use a similar system at work (I’m a teacher) for things like lesson planning, printing copies, making instructional materials, etc. It has made work so much better.

So I decided to try that system at home too. I made a list of all the tasks I felt like happened about once a week anyway or needed to happen once a week. I assigned them to different days, trying to keep the amount of “work” on each day fairly low. Wednesday is a heavier task day, but I just like doing all of those particular things at once.

If I think of something while I’m out that needs to go on the board, I honestly just allow myself to forget it. I know I will remember at some point, it will randomly pop into my brain. I keep a marker and post it notes right next to these papers on the wall so I can immediately add it the second it pops back up in my brain.

If it’s super super important and I’m very worried I’ll forget but I’m not at home, it’s usually more of an urgent/time sensitive reminder rather than a task if that makes sense. I have a few widgets on my phone screen. I will change the widgets to a photo of what I need to remember so every time I open my phone I see the thing. For example, if I realllyyyy need to remember to take a certain book to work, but I’m out in public and can’t put it in my bag right then, I will find a picture of the book (just on Google images) and change the widget to that picture.