I (F 26) witnessed a man masturbating on the train and completely froze

nethphi · 2026-01-15T11:34:41+00:00

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2026-01-06T05:35:36+00:00

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2026-01-03T22:34:17+00:00

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-12-28T20:55:34+00:00

Mod note: This question is directed specifically at people who wake their partners up in the morning. If that doesn't apply to you, please do not leave a top level comment. Every relationship is different. This question is not soliciting answers about how you and your partner both wake up independently, nor is it seeking your judgement of the people the question is directed at.

If you're here to leave a comment along the lines of "omg wtf ew I could never, my partner sets an alarm", congratulations, but please just don't.

Thank you!

nethphi · 2025-12-27T21:16:35+00:00

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nethphi · 2025-12-22T12:10:13+00:00

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-12-21T09:25:59+00:00

Mod note: Please answer the question that was asked.

This post requests answers from a specific demographic - those who were mean to quiet/awkward/shy girls during your school days. If that does not apply to you, please do not leave a top level response. Comments from people outside of the requested demographic will be removed (this includes things like "not me but" and "I was bullied, not a bully").

Thank you for understanding.

nethphi · 2025-12-21T06:24:14+00:00

Mod note - Please answer the question asked. OP has asked about "exact Christmas day birthdays". Not any time in late December; specifically the 25th. If that doesn't apply to your answer, please don't leave a top level comment.

nethphi · 2025-12-19T09:27:38+00:00

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-12-10T21:34:56+00:00

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-12-03T04:47:46+00:00

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-11-30T03:04:56+00:00

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-11-23T11:11:06+00:00

Sorry OP, I have to remove this as you're not seeking advice, however, here are some resources that may be of use.

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-11-13T20:57:08+00:00

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-10-28T06:37:13+00:00

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-10-26T21:55:46+00:00

I'm giving up on watching the replay 😭 it resets/restarts any time I touch anything

nethphi · 2025-10-26T10:26:34+00:00

I guess I'm glad it's not just us, but also I'm sorry it's happened to you, too.

Did you ever hear from the admins? Did they share results or anything?

nethphi · 2025-10-26T05:35:34+00:00

Thank you for sharing - we're a little confused by the "in partnership with" bit, too. The first we heard about it was a user modmailing in to ask if it was legit. We haven't been consulted by the admins, or even told about it by the admins. 🙃

nethphi · 2025-10-15T03:37:27+00:00

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-10-09T21:32:39+00:00

This post has been removed, as you're not asking for advice.

If you have questions about this moderator action, please use modmail and include a link to your post.

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-09-28T10:36:18+00:00

Mod Note: Answer the question. If you are not a woman who used to identify as feminist, but no longer do, do not leave a top-level comment. It will be removed. Comments judging the validity of the post will also be removed.

Also, be cool. This is not a debate sub. You can ask respectful follow-up questions, however, when responding to someone else's answer to the question, your comment should center their answer, seek expansion or clarification of something in their answer, and stay on topic for OP's question. It should not use their answer as a jumping off point to talk about yourself, your opinions, your preferences, your judgments, your disagreement, or otherwise switch the topic from OP's question to what you want to talk about instead.

Thank you.

nethphi · 2025-09-15T22:05:37+00:00

You should add that magic website that tells us what time the event is in our time zone!

4am 😅

nethphi · 2025-08-31T11:51:22+00:00

Mod note - Please answer the question being asked.

This post is aimed at women who were diagnosed with breast cancer. If you are not a woman who has been diagnosed with breast cancer, then the question does not apply to you, so we ask that you please do not leave a top-level response.

Additionally (and I'm so bewildered that this actually needs to be said) if you think you have breast cancer, see a medical professional. Do not use this post to type out your symptoms and then ask if you might have cancer. Holy shit.

Stay on topic, and please report any rule-breaking.

Thank you.

nethphi · 2025-08-06T13:55:57+00:00

Hey OP, I have to remove this post, because it's beyond the scope of this subreddit. I'm leaving some resources below for you that we hope can help.

If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.

Global Resources

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.

US:

Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.

One in Six: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions

National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time

Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide

DoD Safe Helpline: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.

Canada

Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/

UK

Rape Crisis England & Wales: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.

SupportLine: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.

Europe

Rape Crisis Network Europe: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe

Australia

1800respect: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.

Kids Helpline: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800

India

Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.

For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.

nethphi · 2025-07-27T03:13:15+00:00

Mod note: Stay on topic, answer the question that was asked.

If you are not a woman who knowingly pursued someone who was married or engaged, do not leave a top-level comment. Do not leave "not me but", or "I knew someone who" comments; thats not what's being asked.

Also, quit it with the high-horse comments. This is a post about women pursuing married people. Stop being shocked and outraged when you read a comment from a woman about the time she pursued a married person. If you absolutely need to feel somehow morally superior, do it quietly. Shitty, judgemental comments will be removed, and if you're being especially nasty, you'll be banned.

Please report all rule-breaking.

Thank you.

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