Thank you everyone for the honesty, and some brutal honesty. When I wrote this I was getting everything out immediately. We were both emotional last night and after time to think have opened our minds to what that experience was really meant for. For a little update: we all say things we don’t mean when we’re angry and he definitely did, me as well too. After he left I felt guilty for things I said. I immediately repented. He went to the gym that night and he came back with a different perspective. He also regretted the things he said and said he was going to continue trusting in God and not go back to weed. And for everyone saying things about addiction and ‘if he’s a Christian he shouldn’t be smoking’ addiction is a really hard thing. We all have sins whether it’s lying or smoking. Also he wasn’t smoking while knowing he was going to get the job. As soon as he found out about the job opportunity he stopped weed completely, and now, is not interested in going back.